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Red wedding received in money, only the "cash gifts IOUs," says: Wish the wedding down, to Japan to attend my wedding with this section
Video: Students need the money to the groom red IOUs Source: Liaoning TV, "said the world"
As the saying goes "policies have countermeasures," you have the "red bomb" I have, "Bomb disposal experts" - This weekend, the South Bank area Golden Tree Hotel for a wedding, the groom Li Jiang received two special red: there is no penny gifts,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, only a beautiful card that read "wish wedding down a future with this regulation my wedding."
It is said that in the "red bomb" flying the moment, specifically to deal with this "bomb" and "red stripe Bomb" has been quietly popular among many young people.
Wedding red envelope, only the card is not money
Nanping Nanan District, who lives in West Road 171 Li Jiang is a typical "early marriage family", only 23 years old, he had just graduated from university last year, but his girlfriend for four years and love has ripened. At the urging of both parents, this weekend, in Jinlin hotel do weddings.
The day before the end of the wedding, Li Jiang and his family gifts inventory, found two "empty" red envelope: which in addition to a card, do not install a penny gifts. Out of greeting cards and saw this red floor, with "Love for All Seasons, to tie the knot" with the fine words of greeting cards, also printed this statement: Wish ** newlywed couple down, Love for All Seasons, Taoyuan County. ** I offer best wishes, to Japan to attend my wedding present their article.
Alumni gifts also hand tight IOUs
Send greeting cards, it is Li Jiang Wu Lin and Wang university students. Both are outsiders, are unmarried, now in running the business with a clothing company. Three former university roommate buddy,escarpin louboutin pas cher, a good relationship. Why think of such a card instead of red? It embarrassed to say, this is the last resort.
Wu Lin and Wang told reporters: graduation year, the business did not run well, it unstable income, the average monthly income of less than 1,500 yuan. Recently, the unit before and after three colleagues get married, they send out 600 yuan a red envelope,http://bbs.buga.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=17958, the cost of living has been depleted.
When Li Jiang received the invitation, both happy and sad. Pleased that former classmate and buddy wedding, really worth celebrating. Sadly, the relationship between students is also good, the red envelope if you want to send a little afford. Today red starting at $ 200, 200 yuan to Li Jiang Nabuchushou, wedding is a happy event can not send a single number 300, 500, and 400 homophonic "dead" unlucky, this way, at least they get 600 up. But 600 yuan a delivery, which two months to really only Hexibeifeng.
I do not know when Zhengchou supposed, Wu Lin Chaotianmen when running the business, discovered this greeting card is the business called "Bomb the red stripe," the. So with a total of Wang,tiffany milano, he decided to use "Bomb red stripe" to be Fuli Jiang.
"While our gifts sent IOUs,http://www.xinzhou5.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=10977, but the blessing of the mind is real and sincere." Wu Lin said he should get married in the future. Anyway, reciprocity, after Li Jiang such as rebates themselves, but also to reduce the burden of everyone's human. In this regard, Li Jiang agree. He said: "inviting them to attend the wedding, is not to accept gifts of gold, as long as people come, the thought that counts, on the line!"
He favors a burden to help red stripe Bomb
Despite this new gift,http://www.xueletong.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=25043, "white" did not mind, but many insiders was talking about this. On the day of the wedding the hotel waiter brought the matter Chen Mei muzzled straight smile, she said, they have seen dozens of weddings, but to give a "white" or the first time I heard.
"Now some wanderers, really do not understand. What kind to attend the wedding?" Li Jiang's aunt, who lives in Jiangbei district of Ginza garden Liu Yinghua not understand this.
Although many people on the "red stripe Bomb" is not yet accepted, but reporters found that Wu Lin and Wang is not the first "eat crabs." Reporters found in Taobao, a dollar selling this "red stripe Bomb" has a lot of businesses, "red stripe" mostly festive red below some cards, but also with "Product Description":
For people: friends paycheck to paycheck VS cooked (for both parties is the first dinner, as before one has a bag over red, the red stripe is invalid);
How to use: "Bomb the red stripe," one can feast, instead of gifts. Next time take the other side present their "Bomb red stripe" salute, owe each other (Note: red stripe should be directed to the party,http://www.sqgjob.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=5234201867, not the gifts of the IOUs to pay, or peril wow!).
Sellers Miss Liu told reporters, before she sold "Bomb red stripe" for half a year, May Day, the Spring Festival peak wedding period, buyers in particular, more young people are generally large cities. (Upon the request of the parties the text pseudonym)
Debate
Pros:
Jiefangbei Tam Bai Fu Hotel staff: Today bribe has increased the pressure for many people, become a source of anxiety and unhappiness. "Bomb the red stripe" not only eliminates the pressure, but also to express wishes,air jordan soldes, is an innovation should be promoted.
Netizen "floating on the river": bribe intention is blessing should not be naked money transactions. Blessing way can be varied, I think this card can serve as a warm good way.
Opposition:
Shapingba District, No. 12-1 Bauhinia Garden 5 Wang: Although the red envelope is a blessing intention, but that the new cost of a wedding is spending, and spending large personal unbearable, therefore, receive a red envelope is actually a more civilized kind of borrowing behavior. This practical way better blessing with a red envelope.
User "family Philippines Cats": either bribe or not to participate in the wedding, write "white" a shame. Moreover, nor is it new to send invitations to make money, you send a "Bomb the red stripe," go, people seem to like satire, a little unreasonable.
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"Bomb the red stripe"
Can alleviate comparisons of the wind
Crane, who lives in Nan'an District Court, 80-year-old resident Wang Demin talking about human burden is deep. Two years ago, he participated in his wife's niece's wedding, my wife not to lose face, bite the bullet with 1,000 yuan cash gifts,chaussures louboutin, he and his wife spent nearly two months of living expenses. He said that the 1940s and 1950s when he was married, no one said a red envelope, "a candy bed, both husband and wife into the bridal chamber." The sixties and seventies fashionable sent mirror, washbasin, pillow covers and other small gifts, the 1980s began to send a pressure cooker, kitchen utensils,gioielli tiffany, to 90 years,http://jnbuluo.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=306202, weddings and funerals began to have money to customs. To the present, from the initial gift had five yuan, 10 yuan wind rose hundreds of thousands of dollars. Due to face a lot of people have hat and no cattle.
"'Bomb red stripe' appearance is a good thing." Research folk culture for many years a professor of Chongqing Technology and Business University Bears Benedict said, married send "happy money" from Han tradition, mainly express blessing of the couple. Now more and more red envelope specifications, and some sour. In many cases, the severity of a red envelope with a good face, pomp comparisons of the wind. When this human contact become a burden, "Bomb the red stripe" came into being may be able to ease comparisons of the wind.
Investigation
Half of the citizens agree
"Cash gifts IOUs"
November 2006,http://www.8liuxing.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Sina investigation section once for the "cash gifts IOUs" to make a survey to investigate the thousands of people involved in the show, 45 percent of the people on the "cash gifts IOUs" agreed, that to avoid the mutual gift giving trouble and burden, while expressing wishes in mind,http://guzhizaixian.hz20.idcs.com.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=128019, both practical and easy. 43% of people admit to marry, have children, move, school ...... red envelope has penetrated into every aspect of social life, and human burden for their own lives with varying degrees of pressure. 56.6% of people think that bribe because "we are sent, do not send face life difficult." 25.6% of people think that red is "really that mind, do not consider the recovery."
"Bomb the red stripe" This "cash gifts IOUs," How do you really? Reporters also via telephone, Internet and other means to carry out more than 30 people were interviewed, found in favor of fundamental opposition half and half.
THE WORLD
Gifts did not get enough
Red Packaging IOU
October 8, 2009, Benxi Wang wedding night with the bride quarrel, because when students Xiaodong package with gift 500 yuan in cash and a "value of 500 yuan," IOU. It turned out that the same bedroom with several roommates had a good agreement, all married students with gifts 1000 yuan. When the catch Wang wedding, Xiaodong because gold wedding five weeks remaining to send the body was less than 700 yuan, desperation, he brought 500 yuan in cash and an IOU in the red: "Brothers recently pinch ...... This IOUs worth $ 500, so I married can make use coupons arrived in price. "
Wedding you do not come
Account newspaper you know
In January 2010, a man far away in Shenzhen, Chongqing's friends sent marriage Cambodia, asking them to go to the end of dinner. Too distant, time does not permit, the man had to apologize to a friend. Unexpectedly, a friend said nothing directly using a mobile phone to a long list of bank account. Significance account glance, is "people can not see, the money to go to."
Reporter Zhang leaf Tan Xiaohua photo coverage
Strapped students on hand to groom red IOUs Source: Liaoning TV, "said the world" Play Video