標題: such as psychological counseling [打印本頁] 作者: blkiig4c2 時間: 2015-7-15 22:16 標題: such as psychological counseling Small vibration interview with reporters. Jinghua Times reporter Wang Xuan yi taken
□ confused: maximum distress do not know how to do their own
□ Treatment: electric shocks to prosecute violations of personality rights clinic
□ circles: Gay excluded from mental illness
□ Expert: There is no way to effectively change the same sexual orientation
Not long ago, the Haidian court hearing of the country since the first "gay twist treatment" case. Gay small vibration (a pseudonym) had tried to change their sexual orientation through therapy, but so he did not expect was that in a psychological clinic has suffered a shock treatment. Small vibration that the clinic and the clinic's website promotion violated their right to health and personality rights, he sued to court, claims one million yuan.
The need for treatment of homosexuality? Whether through treatment to reverse the sexual orientation? How homosexuals living environment, they face what bothered? Recently, the Beijing Times reporter interviewed the plaintiff's case a small vibration, as well as experts in the field of psychotherapy.
Jinghua Times reporter intern reporter Jin Yi Zhang Shuling
□ psychological changes
27-year-old just accept that he is gay
Jinghua Times: your upbringing like?
Small vibration: My home is in Guangdong, a town, a five, his father was the company clerk, his mother is a housewife, I have a brother and a sister, they have been married, my family is a common and relatively traditional family. This year I am 30 years old, first worked for several years in Guangdong last year, Beijing has been doing business training.
I believe that homosexuality and family background does not matter. I know gay, but also analysis and not related to the family. Of course, there are scientists or sociologists believe that homosexuality and genes, growing environment, I would think, never asked is how to heterosexuality, homosexuality should not ask.
Jinghua Times: When found himself "different"?
Small vibration: Until 27 years old, I accept the fact that gay. When Grade 6, I began secretly like a boy, and he was very lively, in particular, can play, we all like music. Until 27 years old, I had a total of five or six boys like it. Introverted character I like the boys are outgoing, especially knowledge. I just secretly love, never say over the mouth.
Secondary school, I had never heard of "gay" word, but thought and a certain boy near. A girl at my table, how others pass us how,louboutin pas cher, but I doubt "This is like it", "Why do I have happy, not happy, just want the boys to share."
□ emotional experience
Life first confession was rejected
Beijing Times: What made you decide to "come out" of?
Small vibration: life, the accumulation of work, so my heart slowly powerful. Especially in November 2010 of a mountain, my friend and I even climbed the 48 hours over 100 kilometers, I first climbed to the top of the hill, win, suddenly, I feel very strong, I feel nothing difficult to face, strong enough to "out of the closet" was.
Climbing back, I called to tell him that he is my find "objects" in front like a guy,nike air max pas cher, I told him I was gay.
He is very smart,http://www.center.nitech.ac.jp, he did not laugh, but a very serious, very positive with me said, "you recommend a movie," I love you Morris "(a film about gay movie)." He is a heterosexual His reaction made me feel very safe, if he laughed at me or call me, maybe I would not dare out of the closet.
Later, I often tell my friends that, if someone tells you that he was gay, you do not blame him, you make him feel safe.
And current boyfriend "live free"
Beijing Times: how do you know "object"?
Small vibration: I came to Beijing last June, the development, on the one hand want to do more things accomplished, on the one hand but also to escape family pressure.
To Beijing, I search the Internet to rent a house in Huilongguan. I met a girl, I told her I was gay, she introduced me to him. My boyfriend now establish a relationship for two years. He is the sun, lively, playful, read many books, care about the community, never complain about anything, I love his knowledge, we often join in charitable activities.
We get along very free, even though we were a Southerner, a northerner, but the weekend we will cook together, he did the dishes I love to eat.
When the schools, the students look at me like a girl, call me "sissy" or something, but now I love the. I sometimes want to be able to walk down the street holding my boyfriend's hand, but did not dare, and if that do keep them coming back should be high.
Currently, gay face the pressure of family and society, communication space is small,http://bbs.lutong365.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=115345, difficult to express emotion, there is a strong fragility. Families can get married heterosexual, married divorce is not easy, especially birth to a child, much less likely to divorce, which is conducive to the consolidation of the family, and that two of them from beginning to end homosexuality, after emotional stability, without a stable marriage to maintain, no children, although two people freedom, but also easy to separate, but both sides are paying emotion, is not easy to pay back, so there is more emotional struggle homosexuality.
□ external pressure
Parents still can not accept the gay son
Beijing Times: How did you think of the family and society to your stress?
Small vibration: Gay facing pressure mainly from family, parents and friends, and from the community. My parents still do not accept their son is gay. Traditionally, the men and when the marriage, a girl, once married, the family line was normal, so ask me at home.
However, the biggest upset of homosexuality comes from the heart, is that you do not know how to do it yourself. Hidden in the heart of this matter, very lonely, until 27 years old, I was in such a state spent,http://bbs.361cy.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=118030, confusion, depression. Looking back, I think if there was in school psychology teacher, tell me a good chat,http://www.tsukuba-rainbow.com, nice. So, I now want to be a teacher came.
Beijing Times: how to look your parents now?
Small vibration: in a big city, we live independently, something more contact, high acceptance, I forwarded some information and news related to the micro-letter gay circles. I micro-channel Riga parents, I think they have seen. That, my mother called to ask me if I was, I think also find a good opportunity to talk to her, then she said yes. Phone my mother was a long silence, and then hung up the phone. I knew then that she was very sad, can not accept, but I did not call back.
They still do not understand or accept this fact, but no mention of it.
Many people are afraid to "come out" attracted criticism
Beijing Times: Do you around gay friends living conditions like?
Small Vibration: we had organized a survey, at the beginning, a lot of people had replied mind gay, if you go any further asked their friends or siblings are gay, most people do not agree.
Most gay me not "out of the closet" or worry about other people know will work, promotion, relationship influential colleagues, fear of others strange eyes and pointing. I have a friend that he read in high school, was found to be gay, so are bullied, where matter was referred to the principal, the principal said he was wrong, and asked him to drop out.
Rummaged through our books, even university made no mention of gay content. If you have information on the interpretation of homosexuality textbook, I think society will gradually understand and accept. Some gay organizations at home and abroad every year calls for national recognition of same-sex marriage in legislation, I do not know if we can solve this problem in the future.
□ seek treatment
Clinic 500 yuan to electric shock
Beijing Times: Let parents treat you to it?
Small vibration: Chinese New Year New Year back home, relatives and enthusiastic presentation objects without exception, parents only help me perfunctory. Relatives left, my parents told me very directly I hope I find a girlfriend get married. Because men do not get married, they will be laughed no wife. They also said the Internet search, homosexuality can be treated.
At that time I could not convince their parents, afraid they say I do not obey, they also search the Internet, the first is the psychological counseling center Xinyu fragrance ads, said professional treatment of homosexuality. Before and after February 10 this year, I flew to Chongqing from Guangzhou. It was indeed a glimmer of hope cherished.
Jinghua Times: and effectiveness of treatment like?
Small vibration: The so-called reverse therapy is to reverse homosexuality into heterosexuality. To Chongqing, find Xinyu fragrance counseling centers, to my surprise is the high cost of 500 yuan one hour consultation, treatment required five courses, a course six times, doing to 30,000 yuan.
Responsible person is Jiang Kaicheng. I asked him if he really can be cured of homosexuality? He said, "Of course." I asked how his rule, he said, there is aversion therapy, hypnotic, electric shock, emotional body transfer.
I paid 500 yuan, want to try the effect. He took me into a room, take off shoes lying on the couch,http://www.a38338.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=7265185, let me relax, close your eyes, I feel very safe, no one bothered, so I imagine the scene and the men who have relations. He said, you have a physical and mental reactions, then you move a finger, I moved down the left fingers, then he Mengchuo my left arm with electric shock treatment, was dumbfound me, jumped up, I asked Why did he, he said to the effect that this, let me gay generate fear, disgust. I ask is that right after the treatment, he said, each will be repeated three or four times, preferably to 3 times a week, a total of more than 100 times.
I listened very amazed at very relax in comfortable state was such a shock, does not become heterosexual, would fall into mental illness, and that was really scary. The next day, I'll buy air tickets back to Beijing.
The next few days, at night I suddenly woke up, and now think this thing will tremble. I have a friend, he also received such treatment, he did not put himself gay thing to tell parents that he secretly rule, adhere to a month to give up, he said, he was in a trance, working and living popular impact.
□ litigation rights
Through legal means to prevent other people deceived
Jinghua Times: After you returned to Beijing Xinyu fragrance sued counseling centers is how to consider?
Small vibration: After returning to Beijing, I said this to a friend. In particular circles gay friends, they are very excited that this is totally a lie, homosexuality without treatment, but also no way to rule. They said that should stop this thing, so that more people can not be deceived, because many parents forcing children to cure homosexuality, doctors say can cure, then parents will believe. So my friends think through litigation, to make legal regulation and to stop it.
We searched together a lot of information, data, especially senior consultant found Jiang Kaicheng documents are false, only consult qualified counseling center can not be treated. I direct in the Haidian court of Xinyu fragrance, also sued Baidu. Xinyu fragrance because Baidu search will be extended to the first article, Baidu obligation to review Xinyu fragrance business license.
In March this year, I submitted the indictment, Baidu, Xinyu fragrance violates my right to health and personality rights, damaged my mental health and physical health, the two defendants jointly pay more than 10,000 yuan.
Treatment recording has become evidence in court
Jinghua Times: Trial situation?
Small vibration: Jiang Kaicheng personally appear in court, he denied me hypnosis, therapy, said let me pay $ 500 just introduced me to how to do it. Fortunately, I had opened a phone recording, recorded the evidence he gave me hypnosis, electric shock treatment.
In court, the judge let me talk therapy situation, I still think they are trembling. Now we are waiting for the decision, Li Duilong lawyers say, it is estimated a month.
Beijing Times: the trial proceeds, homosexual behavior outside court artistic expression of homosexuality without treatment, how do you see this behavior?
Small vibration: identity they say no treatment. As a homosexual, is suffering,http://099.58tys.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=217297&fromuid=12921, there is pressure, the key is the ability to recognize themselves. After this treatment, I found myself really absurd, it is estimated not to try the next.
Currently, I have not found to reverse the successfully treated cases. Individual homosexuality is because of fear of discrimination, pressure, just want to reverse treatment. I think parents need to change society's perspective.
□ Connection Clinic
Homosexuality is a mental disease?
Currently,mbt scarpe outlet, most people think that homosexuality is not a disease, without treatment, few people think that homosexuality is a disease, patients on same sex sexual thoughts and feelings, and some can be abnormal behavior, is the most common type of sexual perversion .
Is homosexuality need treatment, you can be cured? Reporters have been randomly ask many counseling centers or clinics such problems, most psychological clinic believes that homosexuality is not a disease, but it can be expressed through a number of ways to help gays get better on their own identity, out of the pressure and confusion, to start their new life.
1 views not disease
☆ Shenzhen Sunny psychological clinic
We can help patients understand their authenticity orientation, and thus a better life. Mainly psychological counseling, treatment does not involve different drugs, different consultants fees, take some time to once a week. ☆ morning sail counseling if you want to change to bisexual or heterosexual, depending on the wishes of consultants to help the consultant understand their real needs, not involving drugs, have different counseling methods, the cost of a course of about 10 hours , once a week is best. ☆ Beijing Olympic Health Technology Institutes in accordance with psychotherapy can guide costs ranging from 300-800 yuan per hour. ☆ China Europe International Youth Mental Health Research Institute, if I am willing, to do psychological counseling, such as psychological counseling, hypnosis, etc., treatment costs more than 1,000 yuan per hour,http://zx.jc10000.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=3319913&fromuid=49523, once a week or more.
2 is a view of mental illness
☆ Hospital of Handan money formula
Possible treatment by acupuncture and ancestral decoction, with some psychological counseling, to achieve the purpose of cure. Need of hospitalization to pay 5,000 yuan, followed Duotuishaobu.
□ academic division
Gay excluded from the classification of diseases
Reversing the current treatment of homosexuality, the more commonly used behavioral therapy, empathy therapy,nike tn pas cher, environmental therapy, spiritual therapy.
It is understood that behavioral therapy that allows homosexuals in the treatment of homosexual produce pain, aversion; empathy therapy, through visual or hallucinations, let homosexuals to heterosexual pleasure, aversion to sex; environmental therapy is necessary When homosexuality removed from its environment in which homosexual, heterosexual or adjust the proportion of same-sex environment, enrich the amateur life.
That inspired psychotherapy gay free association, to help them explore the causes of homosexuality search, analyze its nature,hogan outlet sito ufficiale, to develop correct way to make gay and gradually change the "Love with the" tendency.
It is understood that, in April 2001, China's new version of "Chinese classification and diagnostic criteria of mental disorders", will also be excluded homosexuality from the classification of diseases, which means that homosexuality is no longer a disease.
□ expert analysis
No method can effectively change with sexual orientation
Our expert psychological counseling and psychotherapy, Peking University Sixth Hospital, Professor, has been engaged in professional research homosexuality,http://roda-store.jp, sexual psychology, sexual dysfunction and other issues leaves think about homosexuality, more consistent view of all formed is that homosexuality is a kind of natural phenomenon, can not artificially increase or reduction, can only accept objectively; homosexuality, whether related to genetic factors (current science has not come to a clear conclusion), with sexual orientation is not a choice or a decision of individual autonomy will result, therefore, homosexuality individual form of their sexual orientation does not have any personal responsibility; two gay love each other, become as like heterosexual couples, it does not harm the interests of others, so gay has nothing to do with the level of social morality; currently, there is no what kind of medical or psychological methods, can effectively change homosexual sexual orientation, likewise, there is no medical or psychological way, is able to change the heterosexual sexual orientation.
Therefore, in the spirit of the medical profession has made it clear that "same-sex sexual orientation" itself is no longer counted as mental disorders, homosexuals within the scope of normal, it is no longer considered a "patient", in that case, there is no longer the future gay sexuality so-called "medical treatment" or "psychotherapy" of.
So, gay people, are of equal status with heterosexual people, has all the rights conferred by legal person, including the right to health, right to life and so on.
□ Event Playback
The plaintiff claims the right to health million yuan discuss personality rights
At 9:30 on July 31, gay small vibration on the "gay correction" Chongqing Xinyu fragrance sued Baidu and counseling center in the Haidian court hearing the case to the right to health and personality rights have been violated on the grounds, a small vibration to The two defendants claims more than 10,000 yuan. The case is China's first gay sexual orientation discriminatory business practices lawsuit. The case is no court verdict.
Small vibration alleged that in August 2013, his search for "gay cure" on Baidu, the first search result is Chongqing Xinyu fragrance counseling centers, clinics after the call, a small vibration to give consultants "treat" replies .
Small vibration called suffered "shock" himself to the clinic treatment. In March this year, he will Baidu sued the Haidian court and Xinyu fragrance.
In this regard, Xinyu fragrance Counseling Center Director Jiang Kaicheng that "homosexuality correction" for the self-identification of people with disabilities to provide services, it is only to a small vibration provides counseling. Baidu argued that psychological counseling and psychotherapy are discussed in academic psychology, it is difficult to distinguish itself, but also to ensure the promotion of the rights of users, but also do not have a bad effect on shock small vibration.
Present case has not been sentenced, while in Baidu search for "gay cure" "gay correction" has not see Baidu to promote Xinyu fragrance pages. The day before yesterday, the reporter contacted the person in charge Jiangkai Cheng Xinyu fragrance, which I refused to be interviewed.
(Original title: first from the "reverse treatment case" expose homosexuals to survive troubled)
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