標題: and will understand." [打印本頁] 作者: janfg5p5u 時間: 2015-7-16 01:15 標題: and will understand." Zhejiang University teacher Wu Fei microblogging screenshots.
Reporter Wang Zhan
Yesterday, the newspaper reported, "139 words microblogging, triggering big move" fermentation everyone subtle emotions. Zhejiang University teacher Wu Fei (Wu Fei @ Zhejiang University) on the microblogging with simple and sincere words describe the children of elderly parents family, he touched the hearts of many people soft.
Perhaps, this is really my heart the softest part of each of us, it is hidden in the depths, in the usual hustle and bustle, we ourselves did not find nothing. Once touched, in addition to moving and apologetic, make us think of is how to deal with this "love and helplessness" dilemma.
This 139-word microblogging, let the young critic very touching, "I think Mr. qing" back ", this feeling, only to grow, and will understand."
However, it believe that this is the dilemma of the Chinese people on the emotional expression. "Chinese people poor expression,http://bbs.biansao.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=738145, especially between two generations of people, this dilemma is more severe." said, "In the Chinese tradition, the elders are the authority,polo ralph lauren pas cher, Junior is 'indoctrination' of this model led to a few have equal exchange between two generations, over time, they are accustomed to 'do not communicate' it. "
Xialie think this is very sad, "which ultimately led to our present this 'dilemma', on the one hand and my heart there is love of parents, on the other hand, they can not really communicate."
In opinion, from 1925 Mr. Zhu Ziqing creation "back" to the end of 2010, Wu Fei microblogging, eighty years later, we in the expression of affection,christian louboutin homme, but still so vulnerable. "It is worth our reflection, we slowly learn to express strong,http://zazna.com/selection/index.php?item/create_form/1, it really be like to study abroad."
Writer Lu Qi in the day before yesterday forwarded this microblogging, which made him feel a lot:. "We can try to nurture knowledge, parents and children at different times, there must be a generation gap, and then exchange the topic fewer children In fact, parents have a responsibility to take the initiative and get close to, passed to them more new knowledge and information, teach them online, so that they expand their horizons, it can reduce loneliness, another new topic and a common language. "
Lu Qi said that he follow the "better than a thousand filial Shun", "parents want to see you, you go back and give them a look, this is how much money to much better than supplements." However, Lu Qi has acknowledged that most parents both of father and Wu Fei, "and there is no requirement, just wanted to see his son, this is a very emotional forbear."
Yang Jianhua, director of the Zhejiang Academy of Social Sciences Research Center felt this silent silent love is also very good. "This is a natural,http://d-s.sumomo.ne.jp/ew/cgi/bbs/index.cgi/m, it is difficult to let go of love, Xia Yibei people do not have pressure, spend more time with their elders, listen to them talk, this love can nourish you in my heart."
If you think that today give distant parents make a greeting calls;
If you think, this weekend to accompany Laofulaomu sun while the sun;
If you think, immediately to help with the children of the elderly at home, a greeting;
If you think, no matter how busy but also in the New Year with the Spring home with father and mother ......
If you want to, it is better to do it.
Follow Wu Fei teacher wrote this is microblogging, because he was hidden in the emotional words below, so that we had resonance. This 139 words so many users think of qing's masterpiece "back", it was thought of Lung Ying-tai, "watched." Mr. Long said in the article:
I slowly, slowly learned that the so-called mother and a father and daughter,http://www.88822.com/#87788/read.php?tid=980, but means that you,http://kimsoku.com, and his fate is this life constantly watched his back lopsided. You stand at the end of the trail, watching him disappear in the turn of the road, and he used the back quietly tell you: do not chase.
Clearly,Doudoune Moncler, children and parents the emotional, between paying and being paid, there are all kinds of social origin. As the eternal theme, it is not uncommon in the literature. And we are always willing to be sincere move around in the rush of life journey, leaving silently across time.
Who are we? A group of busy workers, between the ages of three to five years old, is the unit in the main labor force. Also, under the old and small. In the busy seven dirty eight elements, we will hear our old comfort: you busy, do not bother us. We really can only control their own busy.
Only in that moment - to see them grow old face, thin back, hesitantly eyes, we will come to realize, at this time, if parents have children in general, and helpless. And they always was silent, will seek to hide very deep deep relies. Such a scenario allows us grief from the heart, and soft to the extreme.
He went to an end of the year,Moncler Pas Cher, when we were summed up all kinds of work, when surrounded by year-end report, or hope, for their family life to do a count. For the loved ones around, what have we done? What can be done?
If because of this 139-word recollections, got us a telephone call; or, because it, we bought a ticket to go home ...... Therefore, we would like to thank teacher,http://www.imap.ne.jp, thank yourself listen to soft heart. Wu Di