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Wenzhou Reuters pupils do birthday parties at Shark Museum, once ate ten thousand dollars, a few days ago, my son attended the luxurious birthday party organized by students, came back and asked me, his own birthday party should be how to do,giubbotti peuterey outlet, and continuous asked several times, I fear luxurious birthday party brought him a bad influence ...... "Recently, a student of urban parents phoned Ms. King, reflecting the confusion she encountered.
Ms. King said Jill son is in the sixth grade students participated in during the summer birthday party organized by a classmate, has been talking about. Birthday party dishes that have abalone, shark's fin, fish,magasin louboutin paris pas cher, etc.,woolrich sito ufficiale, as much as sumptuous wedding feast. Later,peuterey milano, Ms. Kim with other parents asking that the banquet cost more than ten thousand yuan, which is equivalent to own more than three months' wages. Jill a dozen students in the class are relatively better, whose turn when birthday treat by whom so many of his one year birthday party to attend. Ms. King said that he did not want his son to do the banquet, but sad or worried about his son and students affected his relationship.
Coincidentally, the first grade boy's mother, Ms. Xia also encountered similar problems, son tree also recently participated in a birthday party spending over ten thousand. Miss Xia recalls the day, the banquet in the tree house villas classmates held a special invited presenter and actor cartoon characters add to the fun. Not only got a small birthday birthday gift, each scene are also other children get a gift. Miss Xia believes that such a luxurious birthday party if you continue to appear in children's lives, it will give the children form a misconception that it should be held this birthday party. In addition, the parents broke the news, in Lucheng District,imitation louboutin pas cher, a junior middle school students Binbin birthday party venue for this year's election in the golf course, but also self-evident that the cost of the banquet.
Several companies from the city learned etiquette, whenever a child birthday party arranged by etiquette, the overhead of at least several thousand dollars. Staff "Da Cheng Xiao Ai" etiquette company, the general site layout including background banquet, welcome area, signs, arches and other expenses it takes about three or four thousand dollars, and if the increase host, photography, video, etc. also need to add two three thousand yuan. Staff "European City" etiquette company also said that a variety of mid-range of the birthday party scene layout takes about five or six thousand dollars,tiffany punti vendita, if you want to invite additional actors will need another billing. Though expensive, some parents still continue to book, the staff etiquette company said, and now is not just for kids birthday feast, aged 10 banquet please etiquette service, some families in children three years old, six years old, twelve years of age will also do relatively grand banquet.
"Luxury birthday party, not necessarily the children's needs, more affluent families because their parents and to the children organized." Students small mom cause that the current economic conditions are good,louboutin soldes avis, some of the one-child families, both parents Children love often through some publicity and luxurious way to express, even for kids laugh Bo threw million gold, the children do do special birthday party a big way, but they ignore the pomp to the children themselves and others to bring impact.
What kind of education should get a birthday
[Survey]
Students: 77% birthday, 34% spend over 500 yuan per year
For two parents confused situation we are in our city schoolchildren birthday launched an investigation, the survey of more than 20 primary and secondary schools for the city's 100 students. Among them, the group of 50 middle and high school, primary school group of 50 people. The survey 96 valid questionnaires were returned, statistics show that every year there are 74 students birthday, or about 77%; occasional birthday for 19 students, about 20%; however, only three people birthday .
According to the survey, the main form of schoolchildren birthday in three ways: celebrate with classmates or friends; celebrate with their families; with the students over the collective birthday. The project with classmates or friends to celebrate together the main restaurant or the hotel for dinner and go to KTV to sing. In their hearts, believe that with the students to celebrate with friends and 42 more meaningful than the number of people think that birthday with his family a more meaningful and more people, there are more than 10 students support with classmates over a collective birthday.
The students in the form of birthday essentially similar, feedback from the parents also proved this point. Parents construction lobular fourth grader, said the project is the birthday child, asking the students to eat KFC, buffet or watching movies; Foreign Language School students who started a small ocean's mother said, now popular K song after dinner.
Do all kinds of gatherings, natural and ultimately cost. Survey results showed that students in every birthday overhead up to 100 yuan to 500 yuan a number of people, 47%; the cost of less than $ 100 accounted for 19%, the cost between 500 yuan to 1,woolrich donna,000 yuan accounted for 20%; overhead In 1000 yuan to 5000 yuan of 11 people, accounting for 11%; there are three more than 5000 yuan, accounting for 3%.
Banquet need to do overhead expenses also need to attend the banquet. Wenzhou high school students in a small sea's mother said her daughter almost every week to be ready to go home birthday present students a year down a lot of overhead. The students surveyed said that they gave the students favorite birthday decorations, books and cakes. Liu Cheng's students each year send students on a birthday gift cost less than 100 yuan; a quarter of the cost of student gifts between 100-500 yuan, spending on gifts 500-1000 yuan of six people; more than 1000 yuan There are five people (including more than 3000 yuan of 2 people).
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Teachers should not sit on the sidelines for the student's birthday
Parents and teachers on how to hold the child's birthday attitude Student feedback shows that 81% of parents support their child's birthday, 17 percent of parents neither support nor oppose, oppose child celebrated 2%.
Students reflect, teacher support their birthday, 40%, have no objection do not support their own party to celebrate the 52% against 8%. Thus, parents and teachers should not do for kids birthday party attitude is different, the vast majority of parents support children, and more than half of the teachers are the neutral point of view.
"In the student's birthday banquet to do this, the teacher's attitude should be neutral, but there should be oriented consciousness." Education,escarpin louboutin pas cher, Wenzhou University professor Zheng Xinjun believe that this issue should be one of the important content of education courses on school squad ,return to tiffany, school teacher or other teacher should be able to prepare a plan on how to educate their children birthday, if the school does not carry such a regular education teachers do not care, just sit on the sidelines, the students did not form a healthy sense ideas birthday, then Even with individual parents in the community can only be appealed nowhere near.
Are there student teachers have been carried out on the birthday of education 47% of the surveyed students to reflect, the teacher did not carry on the birthday of education, this figure is basically 52% of the teachers hold a neutral point of view coincide. In addition to about five percent of the students, the teachers have been carried out with the birthday-related education, education around three main aspects: the first is to be frugal birthday, second is to know how to honor their parents, and the third is not because of the celebration was delayed learning The overall flavor more concentrated on preaching.
[Explore] Each student will do if a class party, then almost every week banquet activities, this will generate a lot of overhead, the students will take up a lot of valuable time, to adversely affect the class' style.
Church and State Department, deputy director of the third school on Wenzhou Zheng Zhong had tried twice a year to carry out in their classes the students brought a collective birthday party, scheduled in the first half of May 4, in the second half of the scheduled December 9. Theme squad in the meeting,doudoune moncler femme pas cher, presided over the students themselves, draw performances and distribute gifts,doudoune moncler homme pas cher, gifts prepared by each student on their own, each gift does not exceed the price of 20 yuan. Zheng found that such activities do not only prevent students gathering, comparisons of the wind gifts and other aspects of appearance, but also enhance the cohesion of the class, so that the relationship between the students more closely.
Due to the existence of "education = preaching" phenomenon, or else face an opportunity to borrow birthday introduced life education, 44 percent of students said it does not matter; 15% of students do not want to get education, the reason is usually, teachers and parents have been too much preaching a; and 41 percent of students hoping to get on the meaning of life aspects of education. From this data, at least Sicheng students are in demand in this area, but do not want to just preach form.
"Indeed, today's students need to live a more meaningful birthday, the birthday should be a high level of education of the meaning of life." Wenzhou high school vice principal 吴君宏 said that now more and more attention to the education sector life education,spaccio woolrich milano, the city is also preparing to publish education Students cherish life series, if the student's birthday can be combined with life education, moral education will be quite a necessary complement.
For some relatively weak in the current one-child communication skills, in frustration and even suicide phenomenon, Wu Junhong proposed, schools should not only carry out life education, and students at different stages of elementary, middle and high schools should take progressive style education, timely guidance to carry out the origin of life education, sex education, adolescent education, mental health education and training and other aspects of living. The teacher should inform the student step by step, how life is coming alive is why, how to live, and to educate students know how to cherish life, and learn to respect the life of the individual differences, and strive to enhance the viability and value of life.
"Students can also be a nice birthday celebration together very content." Seventeenth middle school teacher Zhang Wenzhou Orient,hogan interactive outlet, you try to give some disadvantaged kids birthday,moncler pas cher, so that students love to pass to them. Zhang in the usual places great emphasis on the work of each student's understanding of the living conditions for some poor communication with parents or students of students of particular concern when their birthdays, but also for them to celebrate, a time to celebrate and for disadvantaged students will encounter to the issues. Once a student because of trouble with mom and depressed, Zhang let the child's mother wrote a letter, in birthday transferred to the student, and he was moved to shed tears. Zhang found by the birthday machine, open-minded students easier.
Wen Zheng Xiaoli, said three of the teachers in the education process, teachers need not say much, just give the students loved to create some of their activities, so they communicate in the activity, sentiment, this effect will be better. Ling and construction of high school graduates students agreed that the time to do the celebration banquet, do not have to treat the birthday, everyone AA can be shared, so you can avoid the formation of air banquet comparisons to a certain extent.
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The birthday of the Japanese as "mother's suffering Day," while the birthday activities let children understand more about the origin of life, to understand the pain and joy of the birth and growth oriented.
"Today, we talk to the children about the pock name. You know 'Ma' This plant it ......" This is the kindergarten children at the time of the month birthday to a shot. Teacher prior contact with the child's parents, asking origin of the name, but also borrowed photographs of children from birth since the exhibition in the class and asked the child's mother wrote to talk about the case when a child is born, and read aloud in class.
Japanese children early childhood, through their birthday, to teach them to cultivate plants and animals and other activities, so that they understand life in a simple surprise and emotion, the culture of respect for life consciousness. Primary and secondary school period, and some schools in the student birthday on this day to be hardworking life experience, so that children understand the true birthday is a year older meaning.
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