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Chongqing Morning News reporters Li Lanchen and Xiang Baodao
One side is paralyzed after a stroke in bed to take care of his father, one side is not less "pillar" of the nuclear family, ETHNO 80 in the face of such a dilemma when he took care of his father to resign to go home. However, his move, not only did not get his wife Tan appreciation, they became husband and wife divorce "fuse." Yesterday, Tan will ETHNO court for divorce.
In order to support the family
His part-time job selling insurance dusk
This year 28-year-old ETHNO originally have a happy little family. By 2010, he and the building materials company to work with, only 22-year-old Tan know, six months after the two of them pulled certificate married. Then they moved into the new home is located in the Jiulongpo District. March 2012, the daughter of Qi Qi was born, to the small family added a lot of fun.
But her daughter was born, it also brings an annoyance. Because ETHNO home in Dazhou, so usually take care of her daughter's mission, and the wife's mother fell on Tan Tangmou body.
After giving birth to Qi Qi, Tan because of poor health until April 2013 before returning to the post to go to work. Meanwhile,Louboutin Homme, ETHNO to support the family, but also chose to work part-time insurance sales, daily often returned home late at night.
ETHNO talkative, with hard work,Louboutin Pas cher, came home, and often fell down asleep. So the days of a long, aroused dissatisfaction Tangmou wife's mother. In the face of Xiao Tan reminder,http://www.biology.kyushu-u.ac.jp/~chromosome/gwbbs/gwbbs.cgi, ETHNO is also a belly, "grievances", but also with Tan quarreled several aircraft.
Father fell ill
He arbitrarily decided to resign and stay home to take care of
ETHNO originally thought, bitterness will boil a boil in the past, only to house seemingly endless rain, some time ago, the father accidentally stroke, from paralyzed in bed.
ETHNO said his father, 61 years old, he is the only such a son, and her mother died was 10 years ago. One side is to take care of his father, one side is not less "pillar" of the nuclear family, when faced with such a dilemma ETHNO choice,http://www.yhmxm.com/read.php?tid=4617&ds=1, in the absence and his wife Tan precondition for negotiation, he arbitrarily decided to resign to go home to take care of his father. "I have always felt did not do to filial piety." ETHNO said.
After learning her husband to go home to take care of his father's resignation news that her husband Tan lack of family responsibility, and do not respect themselves, did not discuss the matter and to resign, troubled family life.
For this reason, they continue to quarrel, but as elder daughter Tangmou often fully stand aside, chatter-law, which makes ETHNO very angry.
Contradictions excitation
4 years, the couple playing divorce
Yesterday 9:00 hearing, tall and slim ETHNO sitting in the dock,http://www012.upp.so-net.ne.jp/ad-lib/bbs/index.cgi, a black jacket, he looked more haggard. While sitting plaintiff gallery's wife Tan is a look of seriousness.
In the indictment, Tan recounting their various grievances, noting that the two actually from June 2013 to begin the separation of life, he has no marital relations, divorce special request.
During the trial, ETHNO not agree to a divorce, he felt wronged. He said the relationship between his wife and the wife's mother usually not too busy and by his own,http://beer.dramamusicschool.com/item/create_form/1, due to the lack of effective communication.
"(Without resignation) this thing is you doing something wrong, you have not told me to quit. You do not consider my feelings, and wanderers." Tan said.
ETHNO have their own opinions, their own building materials company in the monthly income of 4,000 yuan, now resigned, "I can do part-time insured." ETHNO said his monthly income in this alone more than 3000 yuan. Also take care of his father's own free will use to open a shop, there will be some revenue. From an economic point of view, if you asked people to care my father, this one cost the least 2000-3000 per month, and his father care, this cost on the province, but also beneficial to the rehabilitation of the elderly.
After this point, the judge said ETHNO something there, hope Tan careful consideration. 100 Yoshitaka first, Tan as his wife, should be more standing ETHNO point of view.
"These I have considered, but he had too impulsive, too idealistic." Tan said these words, ETHNO head down, brow tightly Zhou Zhao, as if thinking about something.
Yesterday, from the divorce and did not in court for sentencing.
Expert Weapon
Parents themselves to be responsible for the family
"Begotten generation" should be how the election
80 later said, have this on older parents, wife and children down there to take care of their parents and take care of how to choose between the family? Yesterday, the well-known social psychologist Professor Tan Gangjiang said encounter a dilemma,http://vegalta7.s156.xrea.com/aska/aska.cgi/heataftaheatst=all, one side should be more at the predicament, but the premise is to make communication and negotiation. "Take care of seriously ill father is the natural responsibility, but do not forget their other roles." Tan Gangqiang said ETHNO husband is a son, it is a father; his father has the responsibility, while his wife and children are with family responsibilities; If you forgot his role of husband and father, the family blame to the woman is very problematic, is to destroy the self-image.
Tan Gangqiang that parents and wives and children are family, sharing family responsibilities in part to rationalization, through early communication, negotiation, let the other get comfort and understanding. "Repay his father is,Louboutin Talon Compensé, assume direct responsibility for his wife and children more." Tan Gangqiang said families are equally important, you can not choose to escape, just keep me. For the "only child generation", the current of social welfare assistance system is not perfect, young parents take care of the actual distance, so the proposed conditional child "Huijia look", even if there are no conditions,http://www.keishicho.metro.tokyo.jp, but also making new friends , more please take care of relatives and friends, accompanied by their parents.
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Yesterday, saw Liu Di, her mind a lot better, his face had color. Speaking gave up paying back to Chongqing to take care of the mother's decision, he bangs flute think there are some regrets. "Somewhat impulsive decision." She said, now stop and reflect on,http://wx.jazzsynth.com/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=40&page=2, the impulsive decision to let her into a quandary, not only the cost of treatment did not guarantee, did not take good care of the mother, which she initially thought the contrary.
Recently, she and a clothing brand agency owner talked several times,Louboutin Baskets Femme, the boss has promised, regardless of whether Liu flute in their company, the future will be invested 60 yuan per month for his mother to ask better care workers. Liu Xiaodi said, everyone in her most need help lend a helping hand, she'll certainly be grateful to everyone.
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Microblogging interactive
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Ting Ting husband wife half and half
If you encounter ETHNO and Tan this case, how would you do? Yesterday, the Chongqing Morning News Sina official microblogging, for the matter of the investigation caused widespread participation and hot friends, carded, we found support and Tan ETHNO users each half.
Ting Chen faction
"I made Bo gas," he said, "parents are the biggest, the others are secondary."
"Devotion plum," said, "100 Yoshitaka first parents only one money can be earned."
Very
"5678JJJJK" said, "not because of his wife Chen home care for the elderly angry, and she was angry and Chen did not discuss the matter in advance."
"Yuan Jun Cheng," said, "home care for the elderly is no problem, but needs to be told to resign or at least under my wife it! After all, is a man!"
Centrist
"Fleshy refrigerator," said, "Yes,Louboutin Soirée, both sides have a responsibility in this matter."
"Cute little kitty," he said, "both sides should be reasonable, not always getting a divorce. More children consider it."
He
Lei Jun, 1996 Wushan College Entrance champion, after graduation worked for IBM Beijing branch, to become an engineer. His father became ill, he gave up the chance of development in cities, to take care of his wife and daughter returned home Wushan father.
Today, he is and his wife plan to look for a job in Chongqing, in order to take care of the elderly.
She was
Heidi Liu, through self-reliance, became a minor celebrity fashion designer, as in Hong Kong Ola Moda Clothing Limited clothing design director, a monthly salary of 30,000, because his mother was seriously ill, decided to give up their jobs back to Chongqing to take care of his mother.
Today, because there is no source of income, she was a little regret impulse decision, but she is also trying to find work.
He
ETHNO, a building materials company, due to a stroke in the home of his father paralyzed in bed, he and his wife, in the absence of consultation, decided to resign and stay home to take care of his father.
Today, his wife sued for divorce him for this.
(Original title: His father resign and stay home to take care of paralyzed wife to sue for divorce court)
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發表於 2015-5-9 02:03:19
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