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Silkworms grandmother and babysitter
Newspaper reporter Zhao Han desert
Sun Shiying a spacious living room almost full of reporters. They carry the camera, holding a voice recorder to record the 92-year-old woman's every move.
Reporters have been so attracted to a community news: From 1985 to date, Sun Shiying before employing approximately 20 nanny, she helped one of several learning from anatomy and physiology, endocrinology knowledge to English, sewing, accounting and other skills . Workers from rural to urban areas, access to Sun's these small nanny, and now someone has become a monthly salary of nearly million "gold Yuesao", it was when the junior high school English teacher, and others become corporate accounting, embarked on his past unanticipated road.
In the news, people called Sun Shiying as "Spring Silkworms Grandma", she boarded a TV's "good list." Silver-haired old man may feel that he was just doing some very ordinary thing. "They came to my house when you were a teenager girl, if not his family was poor, would not be so long away from their parents and schools. If they desire to change their own destiny, I am willing to help them."
"The little girl just like my grandchild"
"Spring Silkworms Grandma" now with her daughter, son living together outside the North Fourth Ring Road in Beijing Sanshiliangting house. Since her daughter insisted on doing, "Dink", the average age of this family of three has more than 70 years. Press once to play here more than a year working nanny Lotus say, this is a "typical of older households."
In the 1980s, Sun Shiying from Zhengzhou Railway Central Hospital retired. At that time she lived in Zhengzhou, perennially heart disease, hypertension and other disease problems, so the family began a nanny.
Since then, time has past 20 years, Sun Shiying home also has replaced nearly 20 nanny. But as long as they work a few months here, who had a stroke, suffered from breast cancer for the elderly always remember their names everyone, even retained some of the girl's picture.
"An aromatic, tansy, such as Phoenix, the state Yan, Xiao ......" She held out her finger and full of wrinkles,http://shenmu.tv/home.php?mod=space&uid=3739, a number and said, "Not many people in my family, the son of an immigrant American, so these little girls like my grandchild. "
Then 18-year-old girl Ann Henan Fang is this the first nanny. In the old lady it seems, though she has graduated from junior high, but then continue to learn cultural knowledge is not got the idea. However, also found Huan mend job, so simply on the basis of 60 yuan on wages, subsidies and her monthly 15 yuan to sew school.
Tansy is a love of learning girl, and especially like to learn English. Once at the church school of help her buy a tape recorder, to teach her speaking, even often take the initiative to Tansy said: "! That we started conversation (dialogue) it." Later, tansy continue to read the secondary, tertiary, In Henan, a high school English teacher became.
However, most elderly or regret as Phoenix. Phoenix as mother remarried, she had several half-brothers and sisters at home. 7 years old, his father died, the mother of a daughter becomes more than a. Just read the second grade, she was forced to drop out of school, and soon migrant workers.
In the days of old, perhaps the girl's life for some leisure time. Then children and his wife's life can take care of themselves, such as Phoenix only need to do some simple chores children, earn a monthly 80 yuan. Over time, Sun Shiying found even everyday characters such as Phoenix is also considered incomplete, taught her to read, write, and then taught her letter format.
Past "semi-literate," the girl began to write happily return to the countryside, and asked his mother, "Now are you getting bad."
But not for long, and her sister-in-law had a baby, my brother told her to go back and help take care of. Before leaving, the Sun grandmother gave her a woolen jacket, and holding her grandmother's shoulder crying. Waiting for her life is not hard to predict - returned home to the family caregiver, can not get a penny of wages, can only resolve the accommodation and meals.
"That child too hard." Sat on a wooden chair at home, slouch back old memories of the track, and a long sigh. She had received the letter as a letter written by Phoenix, the literacy little girl wrote in the letter:. "I am in pain."
to Phoenix as the brother made a long distance call: "She's here in my wages, whatever the outcome, you have to go home to her little pocket money now."
But she did not know if my phone is play a role. Elderly later moved to Beijing to live with her daughter, changed mailing address, she no longer as in the past year will receive Phoenix sent greeting card.
"She and I may have something to talk about, to be together, then the more"
Today, Sun Shiying home,scarpe hogan, 31-year-old Chong is just more than two months to nurse. In fact, this is the first time after her marriage to work out to the field, the first time into Beijing.
In this huge city, with short hair, extra baggage, I do not love to talk with outsiders Chong is a very humble person. She is "for over." In the past, her husband opened in the southern city buses, income is not bad. But this year, her husband was diagnosed with cancer, he can only return to Zhumadian rural home care of two children, and his wife work outside the home. Speaking of his situation at home, she with hands folded on his knees, looking calm as talking about other people's stories.
But know, Chong hoping to earn more money, as has been in this house to be too small to swallow the same insurance mbang years - she is now a "gold Yuesao" was.
Although the state has lost count of the elderly in their own homes swallow what worked for many years, but she still remembers the first time in 1992 saw this girl look. She looks handsome, but only 1.38 meters tall, when the door timidly.
Sun came a few hours before, this little girl is the door and recite domestic companies. Back home, she often alcoholic father scolding. Was "young, too stubborn temper," the state Yan, simply follow the nurse's cousin worked in Beijing together away from home. But the domestic market that is far better than today's open, the company has received a letter of introduction only person. "With only an identity card," the girl dumbfounded.
She met in front of the company's family, when I heard she is a junior high school education, they brought her back home. Here, even the rice is first steamed unfamiliar with the state Yan is starting from the cooking school. She had to strictly enforce the Sun Shiying hygiene standards. "Transparent and black hair is not the same." The old doctor said sternly, "If it is in the hospital, I have to take the white gloves nook and cranny of the room are touched again, the glove does not change color job."
Memories here, state Yan "giggle" laugh, "In fact, she had never had such a check."
She sometimes felt Grandma "very serious, is not an ordinary strict", but more often she admits that these experiences is helpful for their future.
Moreover, in any case, "I may have something to talk to her, to be together, then the more." In the evening, they talk from 9:00 to 11:00. Sometimes, the state Yan found bad mood, he will ask: "? Otherwise we give shape to rearrange the room"
The so-called "Nuenue" is like many housewives as a way to convert mood, the furniture in the room to a "universe great diversion." At this time, people will like Zusun Liang struggling to convert all the furniture to a new location. "Grandpa think we do a little ridiculous, to both of us still feel very enjoyably." States Yan laughed again.
"She is my good intentions."
State the greatest impact on the transition, it occurred after she came to Beijing for two years. At that time, she has been very much at home on the general housework children. In Sun Shiying opinion, state Yan every day a lot of free time, "you had better come to learn knowledge, anyway, do not delay things."
Early in the 1930s, just passed the city of Nanjing National Central senior midwifery school. There she met a Zhou Enlai and Deng Yingchao, Zhou Enlai affectionately called her "little fellow." Sometimes, she would be invited classmates went to Zhou, "a sumptuous meal." Mrs. Guo Liqun production trainee Sun Shiying is the delivery room, and later with the age difference thus far in Liqun became good friends.
"Rightist", the Sun Shiying Liu Qi row together, accompanied by her husband was sent to work in Zhengzhou. Until before retiring, she practice in obstetrics and gynecology. So, the old doctor wanted to teach state Yan 'anatomy and physiology. "
When the now recalled those stories, the elderly remember this is mainly due to the state of Yan had complained to her:. "In rural areas, sick do not know how to do" in the state Yan mind, it then had not the slightest want Learning "anatomy and physiology" means, even the contrary, "At first I was too not interested, I do not become a doctor, to learn to do this?"
Time, after all, can empty down, state Yan thought, "anyway, all right, learn knowledge Ye Hao."
There are always two afternoons each week, a few of the old lying on the living room table to learn. Learning content include: menstruation is how come, how the baby is emerging, knowledge of the endocrine system, and even disinfection procedures and nutrition. Despite being "amateur school", can not relax the requirements classroom, students only have to do every class notes, before the start of the next class first pass a test, until "Well, the lesson to cross the border," considered the end.
"At first bite the bullet," the students from this course gradually found the fun. When a pregnant woman to a guest house, Sun Shiying help pregnant women to check out a stethoscope, but also to the side of the state Yan also practiced one. It was her first time to hear the fetal heart, "I feel too much fun."
Bang Yan did not know, then it seems that knowledge does not seem to need them, and in her future life, played a key role. At that time, the state Yan still a confused their future path. She was only in his twenties, educational level,http://www.jhkj.ca/home.php?mod=space&uid=5811, contact with parents neglect their homes, and my heart felt "nothing." Sun grandmother in view, she is a "has low self-esteem and ego." Girl.
The old lady wanted to give her matchmaking. Bang Yan height become a problem, has three men disagree. Sun relatives of a driver, though tall is not high, said: "I am so short, may have to find a high." The first four people eventually become state Yan's husband. It was 1.8 meters tall man, his cousin and daughter of the students, he also came to work in cities teens, family condition is not good.
In 1999, they married. Only banquet table, is Sun Shiying and his family helped repairing. Bang Yan relatives in the city, only a cousin, Sun grandmother considered "her family." When the old man will touch their tickets in a 25-inch color television as a dowry.
"I'm here inseparable from the people you are married, nor can you tie in here." Sun Shiying thought, to finally accompany her several years 'granddaughter' depart. Yan gave birth to a daughter after state, in Beijing to start a Yuesao. Currently, her monthly salary has risen to 9,000 yuan.
Whenever mentioned state Yan, proud look like old said his children: "! She is now a high monthly salary" However, she added, painfully, "I have heard often can not sleep at night , it is too hard. "
As for the state Yan, she is already 40 years old, still often call to the elderly, to ask her mother encountered problems, but also help relieve feelings of depressed grandmother. She said: "My grandmother changed, too."
Sun Shiying was asked, Why should such a small nanny to help at home. Lift is an old story 20 years ago. Yan arrived in her home state of the first day, Sun Shiying due to heart disease was admitted to the General Hospital of the Armed Police. Although there is an empty bed ward, but the state did swallow up all night, sitting cross-legged on the bed, staring at the old man. She did not know what a heart attack, do not know how to care of this disease, but she "just feel scared, afraid to sleep as people can not hear you."
"She is my good intentions." Said the old man patted his chest.
"Short remote should equal"
About the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" and nannies story, in fact, be found in a book called "history" book. This is Sun Shiying old 90 years old autobiography, tells the story of her and her husband's life.
In this book, the nanny-related content accounted for only half a page. Old man wrote:. "I think the young girl, the junior middle school education, family services work is not easy ...... ...... I can do to help them cultivate it should be," she guess, perhaps because the book gave the branch where their , branch members found this particular period and informed reporters, to make her attention by the media.
Despite the help nanny story accounted for only a very small part, can Sun Shiying felt, it is described in the book of life and experience, so they have become nannies now the face of such a person.
She was born in 1921 in Xuzhou, Jiangsu, grandmother operating silver floor, it is the second largest city of Xuzhou wealthy. Father had participated in the Northern Expedition, the head office, and later worked as Salt Bureau in Xuzhou pickets long and Commissioner of Inland Revenue, "all fat officer." Therefore,http://bbs.axnews.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=289361, Sun Shiying small kindergarten, church schools, senior midwifery school, received a good education.
Liu Qi row with her husband childhood. Liu Fu is Huangyanpei students, former KMT Ombudsman Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Anhui,http://www.ailinyi.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=133305, Nanjing Bureau of Education. Liu Mu joined the alliance in 1909, after the "revolution veterans' identity was elected to the National Assembly of the Kuomintang.
Such two, perhaps difficult to imagine that their children actually joined the underground Communist Party. When they Nanjing wedding, and later in Taiwan as "Presidential Secretary-General," the KMT elder went to congratulate Qun, Li Tsung-jen, Kai-shek made a special trip to send representatives to. Just as the KMT's big man walked into the wedding hall on the first floor, but is on the second floor underground bridal dressing room held a secret meeting. Later, Liu Qi row with his father contrary, he joined the Communist Party of the news, and even had also boarded the several newspapers.
Chiang's government in order to avoid persecution, the young couple had to hide to Hong Kong. April 1949, on the eve of regime change, they sailed north, back to Beijing.
Today, people take on the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" Into this curious story of the family, learned that the more legendary past. Mr. Liu Qi line died several years ago. Prettily eldest daughter of anti-Japanese propaganda walk 60 miles a day so that the holding pin crying day, half a century has passed. Now go have wheelchair-bound old lady, or will always return to the subject, said that the last time.
She said that his life and his influence by two people. One was her grandmother, it was a good woman Qing,http://city0570.com/bbs/thread-198126-1-1.html, if beggars begging to come home, the hostess will personally brought before a good meal dishes beggar. While another, it is her "fellow" Zhou Enlai, "He is a no children but no selfish person."
"Short remote should be equal." he said it was after she participated in the revolution has been insisting to today's conviction.
This year marks the "anti-rightist" movement of the 55th anniversary, she had received Li Rui, former vice minister of the Central Organization Department of the phone, I hope she write about the case were sent to Liu Qi at the line "anti-rightist" in. When talking about this topic, has been very quiet lady admitted that only in 1957, when she was "some regret."
"We are not conquered only to anti-Japanese, for democracy and freedom, only against the Kuomintang, joined the Communist Party." The old party member said slowly.
When they talk about why culture dedicated force home nanny, Sun Shiying always hesitate to answer: "seventeen-year-old girl who came out to work,louboutin femme, and if my children 17 years old and I can her baby."
Until a few chat, she told reporters at the time that their children age, a time when the "Cultural Revolution." At that time she was isolated, locked in a learning class, the six young guard. Every night lit 200-watt bulb hanging over his head, so that she could not sleep. Old underground party members Liu Qi rows meal, will wrap a small piece of transparent boxes into the group into every corner of the paper and sometimes the words "must adhere to honest, do not be afraid to criticize Wei," sometimes written "To be honest eating a good meal. "
"Those in charge of my youth, how can they do this kind of experience working underground." The old man wrote in his autobiography. Just because of this family misfortune, her child was seriously ill.
"I sometimes sad, want to go home, but not willing to go back."
Not every nurse is willing to learn something. nanny to come home and work summarized in three kinds: some young people learning ability, "I am willing to train her, do not delay anything"; some middle-aged people, can learn nutrition knowledge and dietary with; some people not interested in learning, "never forced."
She often said that he was "not very good temper, require relatively high" people. In her home, the door handle must be disinfected every day, can not answer the question ambiguous "could, almost," can only say "yes" or "no." Because when doctors for decades,chaussure louboutin pas cher homme, are particularly sensitive to her nose. Once, after nanny from the side, she smelled a little odor, you send each other immediately to the hospital for treatment of gynecological diseases. Study also did not allow everyone to live a fulfilling life. In 2005, only 20-year-old Xiao graduated from secondary school in Gansu home computer and later to Beijing. She could not find work with his profession, I had to think of "first personal home about the transition." In this way, she made a home in Sun Shiying nanny more than two years.
Until today, she do not want to mention his own experience of this, little mention in the conversation, "nanny" word, sometimes simply be replaced by "line." Xiao admitted that he "from school when this line is inconsistent." Only primary education is also a caregiver cousin, perhaps one of her reasons for conflict.
One day, she was walking in the street, was stuffed a cram flyer. Look inside the subject, she felt "accounting class" looked very good. Home, Sun grandmother encouraged her choice, but also personally sent her to sign. Her grandmother while at work, while in school, adhere to more than a year, and professional certification exam. Then she completely leave "line", in Beijing, a company became an accountant.
In Lotus opinion, "Grandma is a typical good man." Until now, she still went to see my grandmother every week to help her family pay the telephone charges, the opening of the network, but also to talk to her anguish in my mind. Sometimes she would go back together with her boyfriend, he said he did not nurse in this house, but the old man's daughter called the "godmother."
She did not live the life you want. She later discovered that he really did not like accounting job, a monthly salary of 3,hogan rebel,000 yuan, in big cities like Beijing where life is hard. Xiao refused to meet with reporters, on the phone, her voice still sounded full of confusion: "?.. So I do not know that yet secure I sometimes sad, want to go home, but not willing to go back."
Yuesao state Yan is considered a firm foothold in the city. Her substantial income, the husband is also a residential property company to find a more stable security work. The laughter of the woman now to name on the ID card "to help Yan" is not how like, introduce themselves, she said, earnestly:. "My name is Bang Bang given country, Swallow Yan"
Life looks are moving in a better direction, as a result they can not care for their children, daughter in third grade was sent back to his home state of Yan,http://www.ccmsa.com.cn/home/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Qingchuan.
As Sun Shiying the elderly know, in this city, the contradiction between the time nannies and employers exist. Yan also failed to state an exception.
Last year, she was hired to a family triplets. That three babies "very small", only 3 pounds at birth, respectively, 3 pounds and 3 half kilogram. "Only so little big." States Yan stretched out his hands than the ratio. She takes care of the triplets grow up a little bit, because there are few three small boy while asleep, she woke up just a little nap will be crying.
During that time, the state Yan really tired. Full moon three children slept two hours at the same time. Is that short two hours, so that the state Yan was "really too happy." Young parents are very satisfied with her, even hoping to hire her a whole year. But the grandmother of triplets extremely dislike this Yuesao. Bang Yan always wanted to know why this is, But, guess, probably due to their feeding practices and the elderly are often different. She was first lady ousting, and then was that the young couple take home inside.
Once,nike running donna, the employer gave her leave to go home, she and her daughter did not dare to spend more days, rushed back to Beijing. I did not expect, just on her return she thrust her grandmother, who was completely out. Young father Yan sent text messages to state, it is written, he will remember that children grow up Yuesao kindness, but he "really powerless to prevent parents madness."
The family may not know, after that state Yan and his daughter were just the fifth grade girl cried for a long time. She wrote the message sent to her mother:
"Mommy, I will not let you worry. I'll learn, so in the future and you can be admitted to Beijing University together. Mom, I do not always bother you, but also often linked oh! My mother what you have But you make me want to cry it? Mom can not help you if I want to call you bother you,http://bbs.662262.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=14239, please do not idle (too) I'm sick of you? Well Mom, goodbye. "
Yan's wallet in the state, in addition to a family of three in the home of the photo, has also been placed triplets photos. She always felt, even to their own children, she did not "such care, so pay." Chinese New Year this year, while she was not at home when the elderly, specifically to see the tall long time already strong triplets.
You can still spread the triplets grandmother ears. She called Yan State in the statement was mixed with swearing only expresses a meaning: "We do not baby you see."
Bang Yan quietly hung up the phone.
"I have a lot more granddaughter, this is a blessing ah"
In fact, at home the elderly, are not without contradictions between the employer and the nanny.
There lived a "stream devastated" nanny "very grumpy," Hema elderly grandson back from the United States. "I am old, do not want to hear her speak loudly." Sun Shiying said. Another nurse, the husband to gamble, there has been an affair, she would every day be like "a maniac." Sometimes, elderly care nurse to buy a box of China tablets, that people would secretly take a plate from the box to hide drugs. Such a small problem much plot, the old man finally had to dismiss them. Nevertheless, if the other party to return home, she always bought a return train ticket for them.
Sometimes, the old lady would think Madeleine. For 900 yuan bride price money, the girl was 9 years old his father ordered people. "So what small children booked marriage!" Sun Shiying heard very angry about the incident. She told Madeleine, do not make money squandering, must rush to save out also on the bride price money.
Madeleine is not how a primary school girl on work outside the home. In Sun grandmother around,http://www.yumoyinge.com/plus/view.php?aid=221878, she learned how to use a calculator, but also learning to read. Later, she wrote every day, six or seven hundred words on the diary, to record their "want to do something about something every day."
But one day, Madeleine go out shopping for clothes, suddenly Huanglihuangzhang ran home. "Grandma, I took people a dress." She told the old man whispered. Sun Shiying could not believe Madeleine would do such a thing, she let the girl immediately clothes also back, but the girl cried and refused:. "I can not have, but also they will call the police catch me."
Before long, Madeleine left the house. Prior to departure, she wrote a diary given to the grandmother.
All of these things are not satisfactory and did not let the "Spring Silkworms Grandma" doubt his original idea, she still believes that "the girls would have to change the fate of opportunity, I tied them around, is to harm family thing." Chong just now in her work, her husband fell seriously ill, the old lady understood that she hopes to do the same as the state Yan Yuesao, earn some money.
Not long ago day, Chong pushed her wheelchair into the market, she bought a "long legs of the frog man doll." Home, Sun Shiying the doll used as a "teaching equipment." "You see, to gently press the baby's ear bath." She began to nurse meticulously demonstrates how "palm tiger's mouth ring in back of the head, the thumb and middle finger and hold the child's ear."
Perhaps before long, Chong will aid her training force, to further afield. "Sometimes, hiring a nanny hired was very sad, and my family have become the training of." This may seem feeble old man sighed, but then happy again, "They went out from me, mostly regarded here as home, I often see me back a lot more 'granddaughter', which is a blessing ah "& nbsp;.. & nbsp; & nbsp;
(Text Lotus pseudonym)
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