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CAO Xiaohua and his father to discuss the creation of correspondent Peng Yu Photo
The reason
Parents asked her to help complete the "Qianlong one thousand phoenix map" command can not fall in love
Kink
Himself as a caged bird, no personal space; parents perseverance and hard, unable disobedience
Dispute
The last generation and the pursuit of dreams, it is necessary to sacrifice the cost of their children's happiness?
"And Qianlong thousand phoenix mapping is successful, you can love." This is a requirement CAO Xiaohua parents raised her. Yesterday,hogan scarpe donna, the 22-year-old CAO Xiaohua rough estimate the next, according to parents' request, she can go to 25-year-old love - before she reluctantly gave up 13 love the opportunity.
CAO Xiaohua parents were farmers painter, in recent years, the entire effort is spent on "Qianlong thousand Fengtu." For early completion of the painting, her parents made such a request.
While the parents of Mingnan Wei, one side is his life trapped,bracciale tiffany, CAO Xiaohua very contradictory.
Yellow
Thirteenth shattered love
7 night, CAO Xiaohua told reporters through QQ, her 13th in love and "yellow". But she said happily, though not in love, but the other agreed to become her best friend. "Painting tired, want to find a friend to chat." CAO Xiaohua said that she was anxious gray head immediately discoloration, beat up.
This "boyfriend" know a month. That day,http://707763.biz/home.php?mod=space&uid=12763, CAO Xiaohua came out like a bird,http://www.gib-doch-mal-gas.info, a rare fly again. In a two-way bar, she was lucky enough to know Bo. They exchanged phone numbers and each other QQ, talk very speculative.
Bo CAO Xiaohua several invitations to go out playing, she could have because of painting not open itself, and fear after meeting Bo pierce that layer of paper - made communication requirements.
Recently, CAO Xiaohua 15 days did not go out, every time she made out playing,jordan site officiel, parents should stop blame she only knew playing friends, no sense of professionalism. She did not dare Ti Libo chasing her, Bo family is not wealthy, then parents will know to stop dowry.
They had contact on the phone and QQ,http://www.autobike.tw/vespa/home.php?mod=space&uid=53924, Bo really confession,http://www.noshironet.jp/bbs2/light.cgi?res=993%22,louboutin paris, to build a relationship with her. "This is not the result of love to give." CAO Xiaohua know that love can not just talk on the phone and the network, and ultimately Bo refused to give up the opportunity to 13th in love.
Dedication
Parents obsessed dragon diagram
Why not daring to love it? This has to start with the CAO Xiaohua parents.
CAO Xiaohua home in Yubei District Morishige natural barrier Tung Village,http://0511xq.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=40200, now living in two-liter 140 Long Street. 47-year-old father of Cao technique is little known local farmer painter, his childhood family was poor, only read eight books. Cao surgery obsessed with painting since childhood, hour by branches,http://www.fx400.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=41140, stones in the floor exercise. 12 years old, he heard that there is a longevity expert painting, so by catching eels earn money to buy pen buy paper, and then went to study with a teacher over the mountains.
30 years of artistic pursuit, Cao surgery not only painting skills by leaps and bounds, but also learned carving, wood carving and tattoo art of body. CAO Xiaohua mother Lin Yumei Fuchangfusui, like painting.
In 2005, the couple began writing Cao surgery "Hundred Dragon": the map out 100 different forms of the dragon for the Olympics. For the creation of "a hundred Dragon map", the couple live frugally, sometimes penniless, Cao technique but also to the street when the "Bang Bang", or go to the site mention ash barrels, earn a creation. In exceptional circumstances the family economic embarrassment, CAO Xiaohua finished sophomore also drop out of school, just become parents help create "a hundred Dragon map".
In June 2008, "100 Lung" come out, Cao surgery around "alms" gather together the funds. July 3, a the "Hundred Dragon jubilant Beijing Olympics" as the theme of the exhibition held at the Green Dream Square Yubei District.
"Painted dragon phoenix became their lifelong pursuit!" "Hundred Dragon map" come out, which greatly stimulated the interest in the couple Cao surgery. CAO Xiaohua said that now his father working on the painting "Hundred Fengtu" 60th anniversary of the founding; he also intends to YuBeiOu containing dozens of "dragon" road shape dragon landmarks; most puzzling is the CAO Xiaohua parents intend to draw "Qianlong one thousand phoenix map," and asked her to temporarily not gonna get married, and other unfinished Qianlong one thousand phoenix reprocessing marriage later. CAO Xiaohua remember, from when she was 12 years old, my father began to wonder at the creation of Qianlong thousand Fengtu things.
Revolt
Parents threaten to sever relations
In order to "Qianlong one thousand phoenix map", CAO Xiaohua first love and therefore die a natural death.
Boyfriend major graduate, also a school of painting. CAO Xiaohua in love with him for two years, a very good relationship, but parents were opposed. To prevent them love, let CAO Xiaohua painstaking painting, mother's boyfriend proposed to let CAO Xiaohua took 80,000 yuan bride price, the result of poverty boyfriend had to quit.
"As always, a talk that deposit." CAO Xiaohua said there are a lot of people to pursue her, but 13 times in love because of their parents stop "yellow".
Today, almost all day long CAO Xiaohua homes, six or seven in the morning to get up, one or two in the morning to sleep, life has gone completely: sleep up portraits, tired and fell asleep. Guarding drawing paper drawing, toss back pain; looking at the computer screen design, swollen eyes take Venus.
Painting tired, and now can not talk about love too. CAO Xiaohua said that there are a lot of people to pursue her, but she did not dare to promise - made love every thing, parents are threatening to break off the relationship, not her, and she had to give up.
Kink
In addition to conflicts or contradictions
Draw "Qianlong one thousand Fengtu" delay not only love, but also because many of my friends rarely see her and alienated, and some even lost contact. CAO Xiaohua biggest wish is to be admitted to Foreign Languages College, then to study abroad, but now dropped out,spaccio hogan, was also consumed in the "Qianlong one thousand feng map", the "everything is impossible."
"Young people have a sense of professionalism." Father Cao technique that the Chinese people claiming to be descendants of the dragon, the descendants of the dragon should have a special feeling, the daughter of the dragon zodiac also used his pen to depict dragons, dragon praise This is a very proud thing. Cao said the surgery, Qianlong one thousand Fengtu a couple lifelong pursuit and dreams, more hopes for her daughter this flourish. Mother Lin Yumei told reporters that her husband drafting maps, responsible for their own painted, painted her in addition to the computer is also responsible for the design and paperwork, lack of anyone else can not row.
"Only draw 350 Zhang Longfeng FIG." CAO Xiaohua estimates, according to the current schedule, Qianlong one thousand Fengtu to 3 years to complete, when she was 25 years old. She thought about escaping, but think of a painting with parents raise their own money and leave behind; the money to pay the rent and buy the drawing paper, the father also went out when the "Bang Bang", make great efforts to earn a living; his mother cents No complaints intentions to keep at home painting, CAO Xiaohua has been poor parents in submission of such dedication touched.
CAO Xiaohua said that she now often in contradiction.
(For protect confidentiality, article name characters are not his real name)
Reporter Peng Yu photo coverage
I have something to say
Art needs emotion
● Wang Qiao Chongqing Branch of the environmental services company CEO
Art comes from life, but also the need perfusion people's feelings. Thousands of people Qianlong Fengtu may be emotional thiophene, a lack of normal emotional life, created works will inevitably be mechanical, work should be boring, lacking more angry. I think, CAO Xiaohua's father, understanding of art, there is a big problem. And with her daughter's happiness, in exchange for their so-called success, which is a selfish performance.
Filial piety is not blind obedience
● Xiaoyan Chongqing, a fusion of music kindergarten
CAO Xiaohua participate Draw "Qianlong one thousand phoenix map",http://www.sofmap.com, not voluntary, out of filial piety; do not fall in love, because they are afraid their parents sad. As a daughter, CAO Xiaohua to understand piety than blindly obey, she can help parents to realize their dreams, but there should be clear to pursue their own lives,http://bbs.hjren.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=8227, their own circle of life, not because of "Qianlong one thousand Fengtu" alienated society . Parents pursuit delay of 6 years, 6 years after the close of society is like? We recommend CAO Xiaohua communicate with their parents because their parents can not limit the freedom-loving daughter, should put his daughter go out and do more things, or not love her, harm her.
Parents may be right
● Hao-employees of a construction company
My father was out of the building, I now also engaged in the construction industry, it is the father arranged.
Parents insist probably right. Young started his community, often unrealistic expectations, wavering in life orientation, parents are someone who has, in the choice of the road of life must have more say. Inherited his father at least these kind of advantages: First, as parents teach their skills unreservedly; two distance learning, will save a lot of learning costs; Third, parents can fully inherit and use in the industry resources, conducive to their role can quickly enter the industry.
With six years to reach an industry is not a bad thing. 22-year-old age is not great, another three-year fall in love, is not late. It took six years to learn a profession, to train a person's mind, a good thing. Better than some people waste time, cause nothing's strong love.
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發表於 2015-6-18 00:36:28
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