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"They treat you as a daughter, as a mother ...... old people, dementia, emotional and without dementia." 36 years ago, NG Sze Mei overcome all difficulties and hardships, with love alone hold up this nursing home followed a decade of ninety NG Sze Mei old Min Jing Fen. Courtyard of the old people are when NG Sze Mei loved ones, but the real loved ones do not understand, do not support let her feel the pain.
From 1975, the first free adoption of a 90-year-old couple so far, 36 years, Zunyi Shi NG Sze Mei Mei love nursing dean, to her love, free support widows and orphans of 568 older persons with disabilities, and the elderly nail in the coffin for the 400 . 2011 New Year, NG Sze US announced its own lifetime all property will be used for free for adoption of orphans and disabled nursing home caring old people, do not stay a minute to themselves and their children.
2011 Lunar New Year's Eve, caring nursing dean NG Sze Mei Shi US call the reporter, said he signed an agreement with the child family, his personal property 120,000 yuan evenly name all cash, donated his son-in-law and her husband apiece 4 million, and declared fulfilled after this agreement, the three parties received grants and NG Sze Mei posterity may no longer any reason to look for her money.
NG Sze Mei told reporters on the phone, "My son, daughter, daughter-in-law they have a job and a good income, but when I put them to adulthood, married later, they not only did not take the initiative to give me alimony, but often with a variety of excuses looking for my money, the reason is that I support these orphans and disabled elderly people with no family should spend money,scarpe louboutin, then spend even more for the children of the family right and proper, but my money should call the shots by myself, I would prefer for these orphans and old people exhausting. I want to do is afford to live in a nursing home for the elderly. genuinely unable to pay for the elderly, I will be free of charge, if there is a certain income, children have the burden of economic capacity, I also cheaper than other nursing homes charge Many of the costs. pension business not to make money, it is to allow the elderly to have a happy old age. "
Good people is difficult, more difficult to do good life
February 11 Year Nine, the temperature plummeted. Reporters rushed to the car by the Guiyang, Zunyi City, Shi Mei love nursing home is located in a cove beside the old town official in nearby wells tunnel. From 1983 to care for the elderly is now officially rentals run from love nursing homes, NG Sze Mei with her adopted orphans and disabled elderly have lived in no less than 30 times at home, they finally settled down here, there have been too many difficulties and bitterness, the family does not understand, do not support this strong woman who literally own a carry over.
Appeared in front of reporters Shi Mei love nursing homes, it is a three-story houses, front of the house there is a three hundred square meters of the yard behind the house patron, keeping the dozen hens lay eggs only.
That afternoon, temperatures plunged to near 0 ℃, but in nursing homes, home for the elderly into every room, warm iron stove is burning, each room are warm spring.
90-year-old woman pulled Jing Fen Min reporter's hand and said: "You have to take write her (referring NG Sze US), she (the story) is too prominent, and we regarded her as his daughter, I followed her for 10 years, in Here is good enough, this year the Chinese New Year sons to come to take me home I do not go back, I will have been here! "
NG Sze Mei in a nursing home on the second floor of the office, the walls are covered with banners, pennants behind each face is a touching story. "The disabled elderly, from 78 years old until 94 years old I have both died, family members can not afford to, can only be sent to this side banner." "The old lady from Carey picked up, I lived here for 6 years died, has been continuously hospitalized for her to spend no less than 200 thousand dollars. "Premier Wu to find out when she adopt these streets, or do not know your situation Fengsha dementia elderly reported data showed reporters Look, she carefully registration of every free adoptions old information.
This is 36 years ago, NG Sze Mei total unpaid support the 568 disabled elderly widows and orphans, nail in the coffin for the 400 orphans and disabled elderly, nursing home where she lived in two or three months, the final work of patient persuasion by her children was taken home for the elderly is Countless. "I lived in nursing homes have a maximum of more than 120 elderly people, now there are 33 orphans and the elderly are free, others are low-liquidating." NG Sze Mei told reporters, in addition to nursing home is also home to residual brain child, mentally retarded youth.
"From small to large, I just see the people who need help will not sit idly by. My family does not understand,http://www.laiyangshichang.com/luntan/read.php?tid=62316&ds=1, always asking me, 'Those who are you people?' I said,http://wx.jazzsynth.com/wxcgi/kizai/sunkizai.cgi?mode=form&no=95&page=2, it is a burden on society, but I have the ability to have control of them, for the community to alleviate the burden! "
So she was pleased that "the community is more than good." Close to a nursing home within the walls Zhang Donations single, 5 yuan, 10 yuan, 50 yuan, 100 yuan, people use their love to take a good funding NG Sze Mei her charity trip. Major hospitals to nursing homes for the elderly doctor Zunyi City, reduction of medication, surgery, some schools also often organize students to volunteer nursing education, cleaning, accompany the elderly chat.
Lifetime bare donation, not the same outlook on life
In the late seventies,http://bbs.dongfeng.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, NG Sze Mei Horseshoe town of Zunyi County Middle School teacher, 30 a few dollars a month salary is not enough to use, in order to feed her adopted these old, her chicken, duck, roasted corn to sell wine, Later the city pull scooters, swing night market stalls, open a restaurant, smoke hotels, hostels contract, did coal business. "Fortunately God take care of me, do business to make money." NG Sze Mei rely on their own hard work, a dime savings to take care of the elderly.
In 1983, his family moved to the United States NG Sze Zunyi City, in order to better care for the elderly, she completely quit teaching job and rent and the elderly live together. Gradually, she's been known for charity, wandering the streets of the elderly, abandoned children the elderly, have been brought to her rented room. Under her careful care,basket jordan homme, one after another old man happily through life on the road. Her act has been widely spread in northern Guizhou city, known as "Zunyi City,http://hanten.jp, the most filial person", was her home town's people praised as a "living Buddha."
"I grew up by the education is to learn good things, do every day, to see the teacher first thing I tell the teacher how much a good thing to do today!" NG Sze was born in 1956 in the United States, told reporters, "but now, do fewer and fewer good people, and I an era when people do not do good things; the parents filial fewer and fewer people, the pecuniary interests as more important,nike squalo, more and more selfish people ... ... "
Then do business with a rich woman told NG Sze Mei said: "You is not no money, but dressed so scrubby, you look at me, hands are full of gold ring!" NG Sze Mei laughed, "different phase plan, I with her values completely different, I talk to her what to say! "
Once in two years with hundreds of elderly people to move a dozen times, because nursing homes to rent, less than $ 1 million renovation loss NG Sze Mei,http://sportsfan.jpn.org/cgi-kban/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=141&page=1, now, their name did not own a car, her body no gold and silver jewelry, dressed in ordinary clothes; however, in order to treat a sick old man living on the streets, so she took out tens of thousands of dollars never hesitated.
"Zunyi City, the high-end nursing homes abound, but many of them can not go, they came to ask me how I do so well? I said, no love, no charitable heart, just want to make money do not make money is certainly walking of. "
The reason to announce his lifetime bare donation, NG Sze Mei told reporters that his total of two women and a child birth, in addition to support small daughter understand themselves, others are attached to money to do against her nursing home, not only that, after the children are often married to each kind of an excuse to find their own money, relatives more often borrow money without, "After the earthquake, we had a family meeting, sons and daughters have promised to donate 1,000 dollars each, but finally no one gets here, or my own pad for their money. "
NG Sze Mei biggest hit on one thing happened last July 4 in the morning, most understanding and support her daughter jumped in their own eyes, 8th Floor, committed suicide, ending his young life,scarpe louboutin, 54-year-old NG Sze Mei suddenly felt the impermanence of life, It has always been a strong sense of themselves would collapse at any time, but that he once fell down, nor successors under appropriate circumstances, these orphans and the elderly would not have to live on the streets?
December 8, 2010, in the case of children once again reach out with her money,scarpe nike, she decided to sign agreements with them, the last of the 120,000 cash grant his son-in-law and her husband; since the beginning, and then her own hands No penny, since the family shall not be for any reason she penny, all the property owned by her lifetime love official US nursing homes all for free adoption 70 years old with no children, no property, disability, orphans and disabled elderly paralyzed They all.
Two wishes,http://news.xinyuan5588.com/?action-viewcomment-type-shzx-itemid-6594, hopes to achieve in his lifetime
"I have had two wishes, I hope God blessing me,http://www.zhuzhou.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, be able to achieve." NG Sze Mei told reporters that the first wish is to find a qualified successor. "This man must have two things: from helping others to do good, no selfishness, one for the others, the only way people can do my successor."
"The second desire to build a modern, fully functional nursing home to take care of orphans and disabled my 36 years of experience in the elderly, such as nursing homes into at least healthy area, five regional paralysis zone, dementia district, theosophy uncontrolled areas and infected areas, an area of 3,000 square meters, from the urban area best a kilometer away,http://www.olympic-co-ltd.jp, to collect part of the low compensation cost to feed the orphans and disabled elderly services free for adoption, so that you can 'to hospital nursing homes' and sustainable development. My this set of ideas, currently the world did not. "
"There are a lot of people have wanted me to cooperate, there is a boss willing Zunyi 1.5 million, Shijiazhuang someone is willing to 200 million, but they all have plans to return to profit; and even when I was a poor student in funding Someone made a fortune, find me together in my name want to cheap land to continue to send his money, I have been rebuffed. "
"I hope that this modern nursing home or settle in Guiyang Guiyang surrounding areas, orphans and disabled elderly people benefit more, more to alleviate some of the burden for the community." NG Sze Mei told reporters that she hoped the idea would be supported by a number of government departments. "I know now to do good in fact very difficult, but I will always do so."
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