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"Legal Weekly" Interns & nbsp; Huangqiu Xia text /
"If tomorrow morning, I can not find my girlfriend, I have a place in her possible suicide." May 6 afternoon, a desperate man called the "legal weekly" psychological crisis intervention hotline to express his inner anxiety . He Zhongxiang this comes from a man named Zhoushan, because his girlfriend walked out on several occasions attempted suicide. Not long ago, he heard that his girlfriend could come to work in Changsha, Hunan, and he arrived at the Star City. Unexpectedly, the girl is still hard to find.
In order to stop the tragedy, "Legal Weekly" correspondent by telephone, text messaging to keep in touch with each other, and to appease his emotions. With the help of Mawangdui police station, would prepare jumping was successfully rescued. May 9 afternoon, He Zhongxiang give "legal weekly" sent a silk banner to express gratitude.
Winter work met the beloved girl
"My name is to Changsha to find my girlfriend, if not tomorrow morning to find her, I'll commit suicide in her place that may arise." May 6 at 2 pm, "Legal Weekly" psychological crisis intervention hotline hasty He sounded tearful phone man. It turned out that after missing eight months waitress girlfriend in Changsha, Hunan Changsha He Zhongxiang made a special trip to rush, but his girlfriend's phone is always off. So he only took her photo, to find someone to ask each hotel, "I'm too tired, if we can not find her, I have nothing to live in hope."
18:00, reporters saw near the Changsha railway station . 1.8 meters tall, thin figure, his face does not comply with the vicissitudes of age. To see a reporter, he began to search for his own memories about the emotional entanglements between with his girlfriend.
He is Zhoushan,nike air force,http://www.ad.cyberhome.ne.jp/~k-morita/clip/papalani.cgi, and her father is a publicly traded company responsible, excellent family conditions. 2005 winter, to Ningbo aunt's house on vacation, to see if he had nothing to do, uncle to introduce him to a clothing company employees responsible for flat iron work clothes.
During this period, He Zhongxiang in finished their work, like other sectors stroll about. (Weekly News Legal Hotline  was in the clothes quality inspection departments a man named Wang Na girl, she has a sweet shy smile, and soon attracted He Zhongxiang. At that time, Wang Na with fellow dorm like to find play, several people often go out to eat,http://kojinjohohogoshi.jp/bin/piip/gwbbs.cgi, sing, generous always rushing to pay. "Whenever this time, Wang Na always fiercely staring at me." It makes He Zhongxiang Wang Na guess might love him, but the result was unexpected, "I could not understand you ostentatious, what you always treat? "The answer to that Estela He Zhongxiang more cute, and he began approached Estela.
October 2006, Wang Na appointment and near Ningbo Harbour meet. Afternoon, He Zhongxiang sent Wang Na bus ride home,gioielli tiffany, Estela always the excuse that wait for the next trip. This and so on through seven or eight buses, which makes He Zhongxiang saw Estela's dismay.
October 24, 2006, formalized the relationship. Along the course, so that He Zhongxiang Wang Na careful that she is the other half of his life. However, their parents certainly did not receive love, parents believed Wang Na from Shaanxi unworthy son, and introduce good match to force a girl to his son.
To find his girlfriend to spend more than ten million
In order to maintain this relationship, so that does not hurt a loved one, in April 2008, He Zhongxiang decided to leave their parents, relying on borrowed 5,000 yuan own business, but always accompanied by about Wang Na.
"Entrepreneurship is really hard,nike air jordan,http://www.metropolitanosfc.com, she followed me through a lot of tough times ahead." He Zhongxiang said. The most impoverished days, he relies on one yuan to buy four bread, they eat one, and the remaining three left Estela. Even so, He Zhongxiang still think that life is sweet, because there Estela fought alongside him.
Both efforts were not in vain, at the end of 2008, registered the Zhoushan Putuo He Zhongxiang Exhibition letter Technology Co., Ltd. Computer website finally on the right track. At this time, their daughter was born, Wang Na and serve to start a "wife and mother." He Zhongxiang this time for the company's development, the day to indulge in work, they have no time to take care of her daughter.
September 2009 day bidding for projects in the office to discuss with the customer, and Wang Na requires with her shopping,http://www.f-plan.co.jp/no-tie/bbs/light.cgi, "Before, I did promise to go with her, but later given to the customer is very important, it had done it." He Zhongxiang He had recruited deaf cousin to accompany his girlfriend shopping. Early next morning, He Zhongxiang fans just get up on his girlfriend a slap in the face, he thought his girlfriend the day before in order to vent discontent will not say anything. A few days later, when his mother found her daughter He Zhongxiang, he learned that his girlfriend has been away from home. "Originally we intended to September this year to register the marriage, did not think,http://www.ad.cyberhome.ne.jp/~k-morita/clip/papalani.cgi, but she walked out of the ......" He Zhongxiang sobbed.
At 2:00 on September 13 2009, anxious Ningbo Yuemu Jia arrived by car door, waiting day and night, and mother always said do not know the whereabouts of her daughter. (Weekly News Legal Hotline helpless He Zhongxiang had to the police. Since then, he embarked on the road to find his girlfriend.
In Hangzhou, he learned that his girlfriend had been in 3 p.m. long car trip, put all stations 3:00 Hangzhou start of the trips were all sitting over and over. Eat drink because of excessive anxiety, he fainted several times in the Hangzhou East Bus Station.
There might guess his girlfriend back home Hanzhong, He Zhongxiang repeatedly rush to inquire about the news. Once at night under the rain, not familiar with the terrain He Zhongxiang fell into the river, the whole body wet. Stay up all night for several days plus the drowning, He Zhongxiang ill. Parents for his life and safety, mandatory treatment he was at home recuperating. Rest of those trapped three days, He Zhongxiang hair white half.
Once again in Hanzhong, a few months so that He Zhongxiang looking desperate. "If my departure is the best result I will leave." online message said to his girlfriend,http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/make-your-own-website-mobile-web-design-builder-digital-item-/181281492980?/shockwave/download/download.cgi, and climbed on the roof of a cell, ready to jump off the end of his life, thanks to the people around the timely warning, that he was a local Police Quanzhu.
And this despair, suicide, He Zhongxiang find his girlfriend on the way in the implementation of the four times.
In order to find his girlfriend, He Zhongxiang from September 2009 to December moonlight toll to spend 17.4 million yuan.
Reporters with the suicide of his message Quanzhu
"I was too tired and wanted to rest, but the thought of her suffering on the outside, not the mother to take care of her at home,http://nozoki.fooo.jp/top/kokuhaku/aska.cgi, I can not stop." He Zhongxiang said bitterly.
At 13:43 on May 7, the reporter received a He Zhongxiang sent a text message: Huang reporter, I want you to help me in trouble to transmit a letter,http://www.lionbrandyarnstudio.com/cgi-bin/faq-search.cgi, I personally wrote to my girlfriend, you can published. SMS let reporters premonition the wrong, reporters immediately called him: "Where are you?" He said with a tearful voice shouted, "Now I am not at liberty to say, yellow reporter, you get the letter first, okay?"
In have messages sent to the guidelines, reporters rushed to where he Dolton Hotel Changsha, said he got the letter. It was a letter addressed to his girlfriend's suicide note: The "Dear wife, I want you to see this letter, I have been in another world really belongs to me, and I was very tired tired, maybe I deception ...... I just want to say, every year when my death, you go to my grave and put a bunch of my favorite lilies, okay also look at the way we love the crystallization -? filial daughter Han, count me I beg you. "
He Zhongxiang made in order to prevent any irrational moves, reporters continued to keep in touch with him, side to appease him, let him tell his side of the specific location. "You think about your own daughter, she was two years old, if you go after the mother also lost her father, she will be more pathetic." "Yes ah, my daughter is a treasure in my heart, I am not willing to let her suffer any harm . "In this case, was standing on the top floor of a cell of a ready to commit suicide, but Mawangdui police station has been around behind him.
"Huang reporter, you first get a letter now." Finish the sentence, He Zhongxiang immediately hang up the phone, the reporter call back several times, have been dropped. (Weekly News Legal Hotline In desperation, the reporter can only persuade him by text message, "since you have to help the media, on behalf of your heart there is hope, and so why not it?"
At 8 pm, reporters suddenly received a He Zhongxiang telephone, said he is now in Mawangdui police station, also said he would calm down. May 9 at 3 pm, He Zhongxiang again telephone contact with reporters,air max nike pas cher, said he was leaving that afternoon Changsha, he said he would have been waiting for his girlfriend to come back before the daughter, of adults, he will not fall in love with any woman marriage. "Wang Na, you will always be able to go home, the door has been opened for you. For her,nike air max pas cher, I'll never do anything like that to commit suicide. Thank you for helping the reporter."
[Expert opinion]
Do not take his own life a joke
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Suicidal behavior under a variety of extreme emotions: or despair, or religious fervor, or passion surging down or spectators clamor or public uproar trick, or helpless chips. Behind the seemingly desperate move but it seems to hide a great expectation and desire.
He Zhongxiang guy like this story, it seems that suicide has become a banner in him, but also a statement: a declaration of love and hope, there is a gesture. It takes courage to commit suicide, because the instinct of life at that moment will inspire a lot of fear, this fear is actually life on self-protection. It is because of this fear, He Zhongxiang decided to carry out before jumping to the media for help. Then, finally let his instincts he did not give up their lives. I hope he can learn from this incident, do not make fun of their own lives, the courage to take on the responsibility of men from! (Newspaper blog address: |
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