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From the United States came to Guangzhou, Danny witnessed the past 20 years the rapid changes in Guangzhou, from a straight man to marry Chinese men bravely, how many bitter tears middle
In this regard, Danny feel the most profound, he said he now rarely go to the bar, one too noisy,http://www.tingchee.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=5845854&fromuid=19969, and second, there are regular partner,http://www.fc-agency.com, not to mention the party now held specifically for gay bars had much. It is also because of this, the aforementioned social networking sites established gay population, even if there are many gay group of friends recommended the organization of the party, but those few things are not, it is no wonder known as "DD" Group of Friends of Guangzhou on October 11 Daily roar body to express his anger.
18:00, he come to the party. Striped shirt and beige pant, nearly seventy years Danny a little beer belly, but it looks good spirits.
In an online survey for citizens in Guangzhou,air jordan pas cher, 49.34 percent of respondents said that homosexuality "is understood but did not accept."
Out of the closet or not, face difficult choices tortuous
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In adolescence discover their sexual orientation is different from the other boys, when Dave has been a loss, but after the completion of self-identity, he was afraid to tell their parents, "My parents told me that a full understanding, and I very grateful to them, "in the present tense about this matter a few years later, Dave still thankful, he said it also gave him the right to fight for the American gay, remove the resistance from the family.
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Although the above worry more from Danny speculation, but speculation behind this really worries him is that if one day, and he married last year in California, the other half can not be met,http://www.rockclimbing.com/cgi-bin/videos/search.cgi, which in him, indeed In the case of life unbearable burden.
The second floor of a handful of customers, a rare quiet, suitable for a chat.
"What we need is equality, but hope to be in the nature of textbooks, someone to tell you:! Homosexuality is not alien has enough" temporary visit to Guangzhou from Beijing homosexuals Li says.
"This is a dead city you !!! gay bar or sauna clubs do !!"
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In the "gay subculture" in referring to Li Yinhe differences between homosexual and heterosexual love express love, unlike heterosexual marriage and strengthen social customs and law bans gay love "known three to five years, however long, short But one or two meetings, "but Danny is an exception, he and the other half fell in love more than 15 years.
Unlike Dave that when Danny in American life, has not been, is not willing to come out and discuss the topic of homosexuality when others try to avoid, "if for 'anti-gay' expressed support for this to have been trying to find fault; If support gay, nor different from the inverter to prove their identity. "
After several contacts and indicate intentions, Danny lives in Guangzhou (a pseudonym) is finally willing to meet. Place about a bar in the Pearl River New City.
In addition to relying on their own strength to organize similar events outside the sharing session, Guangzhou gay organization is also active external borrowing. Early last month, director of the Los Angeles Gay center Dave Fletcher will be invited to Guangzhou.
Bravely stand up and fight for the rights of Chinese gay, Danny expressed great admiration, and said he also participated in 2009 in Hong Kong over the gay parade, the only high-profile appearance that has allowed him remember, "It was a total of nearly man, I heard the news from a friend that after participating in the parade. "
■ Los Angeles gay center director Dave Fletcher basing pass on teaching. Express reporter Hou Pengfei / photo ■ overseas gay parade in the general direction of a pair of lovers love their time audience. Newspaper Information,
Bar space on two floors are large group of foreigners is on the first floor to watch the 2011 Rugby World Cup, every touchdown lens can always set off cheers.
Although it is the first time to spike, but the early part of the gay and Guangzhou, Guangzhou has been the case in contact Dave also slightly understand, and can, after some wonder, say the party has been held in Guangzhou gay bar.
Hand shopping, have to wait two to three decades
Commenting on the development of homosexuality in China, Li Yinhe of the "Hi Guangzhou" reporter said, compared to the Western Christian right strongly opposed to homosexuality, China, at least not encountered so much resistance in the religious dimension, not to mention China since ancient times " Longyang "and" cut sleeve "and instead of" gay "in the argot.
"Do not the same and they do not discriminate against others." In an interview with New Express "Hi Guangzhou" interview, renowned sexologist, Chinese Academy of Social Sciences researcher Li Yinhe appeal: From the perspective of social discrimination, for a few such as gay equal treatment of ethnic groups, is one measure of progress of the times.
With a hint of caution, starting with Danny few words. After a burst of chatter, or under the influence of alcohol, he will start with his own story, a story of foreign homosexuals in Guangzhou ......
"Whether it is a good friend or gay,http://goclub.com.hk/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=549499, in the past we can often be seen in Guangzhou boys holding hands walking down the street, but now almost no."
After the crowd, everything remains the same.
Out of the closet: is Come out of the closet, refers to the open about their sexual orientation.
Although the "understanding but does not accept" no more than half the proportion, but Danny similar foreign homosexuals living in Guangzhou, it can be seen that figure itself is a great comfort.
■ Express reporter Hou Pengfei
■ Express reporter Hou Pengfei
"Although the gradual change social progress and people's attitudes, my wish or be able to achieve in the next two or three years later, but at that time I might have been dead." If completed, Danny heaved a tone.
With this ambivalence, Danny experienced married and divorced basing tortuous emotional experience, but even before the death of their parents, all did not know he was gay.
As part of a pluralistic society, TA were eager to "Long live the understanding."
15 years of love, every 90 days together
Only when gay marriage, challenge public nerve, or someone to commit suicide the way to respond to too much social pressure, or every World AIDS Day, the media and the public will be cases of licensing of self-reflection.
Even so, hundreds of people in the population, still no response, as if a big stone into the lake, there is no splash, no ripples.
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All along, for my friends, Dave does not avoid its own gay identity, "If it is a true friend, even told them I was gay will be surprised, but was astounded,http://www.sunrise-blvd.co.jp, if true friend, our Communication is business as usual. "
Lesbian: male hegemony in order to oppose affirmative appellation, West lesbians in the 1970s have their own exclusive terms, is translated as "lace",louboutin sito ufficiale, Chinese lesbians call themselves "LES" or "Lara."
Because there is no work visa, Danny now only stay up to 90 days to get a tourist visa, and therefore before each visa about to expire, he can only leave Hong Kong or neighboring countries,http://mt.fresheye.com/ft_form.cgi, and then back to Guangzhou pocket, and the other half spent under a 90 days.
Time flies over nearly 40 years, although China canceled a homosexual act "hooliganism", but also though the medical profession has been removed from the psychotic behavior, but not before breaking stereotypes, these words still promote people thought.
When their breathing increasingly cramped space, the Guangzhou city such as PFLAG will and NGO communities stand out. Gay provide more than guidance, the organization is also committed to the elimination of the above Naoto fears and misconceptions about homosexuality.
October 16, the Executive Director of PFLAG A strong will on the organization of a against "homophobia" Naoto sharing session, more than 40 participants, including one from Colombia lesbian.
Guangzhou street, past the common male hand shopping
MB: is Money Boy, meaning prostitutes.
As local and foreign residents living in the same building, as due to the language barrier, communication will be a spike in fresh and local foreign gay homosexual, which appears in Danny, this is normal thing, he said a lot like him Such fear of exposure to foreign gay identity, become the focus of the relevant departments, "marking target."
Of textbooks in China and "Marriage", TA designates are almost not mentioned too - partly because many homosexuals choose to hide to protect themselves; on the other hand it is because accustomed to "black or white" eyes and looked world People on sexual orientation has long been accustomed to gender binary, used to be one label categories, and that with such a position be able to return peacefully. Therefore, TA have become the secret group, nobody can give definitive answers.
As it has been established for 40 years of gay organizations, gay center in Los Angeles not only has its own online journals, but also for the young, the elderly and the homeless of the center and other assistance such as shelter and work, as well as legal advice. Even different situations and cultures, but after 21 Chinese gay head of the organization to Los Angeles to learn, this model includes a lot of development has now become PFLAG will wait for China similar organizations reference object.
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October 11 each year the United States out of the closet gay day. Even so, how to choose a cabinet or not cabinet This is a problem in China in terms of homosexuality, to Dave and Danny as well.
Although well-known sexologist Li Yinhe once said: China is gay paradise half. However, in Guangzhou, Danny but felt the gay scene from the 90s of last century to the present, has become a huge shift from the public to the ground.
In April 1974,hogan outlet milano, has been published since the "gay encyclopedia" magazine "research" subject to legal action, the French philosopher Michel Foucault once for this feeling: "In the end you want to know when to speak and be gay in order to obtain normal the rights of sexual activity "
In talking about his desire when Danny expressed the hope that as a partner of the opposite sex, usually can and the other half to go shopping hand in hand, apart from no other luxury.
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On a social networking site marital status column, American Danny (a pseudonym) shows married, his other half is a man, but a Chinese person. Data show that homosexuality 4% in the crowd, like this big city in Beijing, Shanghai, the proportion is even higher. Nevertheless, because of the social environment and the pressures of homosexuality out of the closet a few select, a spike in foreign gay and even fewer, and 丹尼恰 is one of them.
Naoto: is Straight, refers to heterosexual or homosexual. In the UK common bent (curved) as comrades in lieu of that, straight then used to refer to heterosexual opposite.
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Gay: Gay of the United States claiming to replace the heterosexual community to impose their own homosexual, gay men more than that, there is the word in English, "happy" means, Hong Kong and Taiwan transliteration of "base."
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T / P: refers Lesbian gender roles, T refers to masculine roles (from tomboy), P refers to the feminine role (from the "woman" in the alphabet), between T, can be called between P "regardless."
For the reason, Danny also monensin release, because in his view, social minorities, including gays, along with the openness of this that become more relaxed.
In the legal level, and the issue of abortion, prostitution, surrogate and sexual crimes, like homosexuality, not only between law and morality heated debate, people have also used to flow in the emotional condemnation of mind, and with such as hybridization, promiscuity and confusion and so full of self negative imagination. Other cities that, heard in an open and inclusive Guangzhou versa.
You should be aware of "base" of the concept
Guangzhou has a number of gay people, it is difficult to verify. How many foreign gay people, but no data.
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