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Trainee reporter Chen Kai Kai
Yesterday morning, the 19th floor, there is a reprint top posts above, entitled "Early in the morning received a six-year-old son's girlfriend 19 text messages to my house to sleep," the post is a network called "lizhonlu" people in July 1 Japan issued after July 2 was released reprint, as of yesterday 20:40, hits more than 12 million visits, respond to more than 1000 posts, causing a lot of friends talk.
Original quote reads as follows:
I was a freshman mother, son to college in Europe. Spring home last year in high school classmate reunions and love on. To tell the truth, the son is so small (19 years old) to fall in love, from the perspective of our parents are not supported, but also know not to interfere. So, I told the son of the exchange, as the most important in school, my mother does not frustrate you. Besides, his son's girlfriend snow also look petite, pathetic. Snow on reading a college in the city. I did not intervene, they encourage their children to learn at their own university.
Two days ago, the son of the summer holidays, the children will certainly come back to see his girlfriend, this is a very normal thing. The child's first day back, as the men were not seen for a long time, they chatted until late at night and sleep in our house, of course, separate sleeping. The next night, the snow still living in my house (also in urban snow house), at nine o'clock in the morning did not sleep together. At this time, I lost patience and his son aside and said to his son, and I said: Jingjing, your mother does not oppose love, but you are living at home is not good, even if not living together, neighbors views are not going to say, you are so young, what happened in case damage to both sides, especially for girls hurt deeper. Sex is a beautiful thing, my mother want you to reap the sweet school, get married and then to slowly savor the best. Son is very angry with me and said to me: I just want to live in the snow into the home. My son is estimated to educate him and worried to tell exactly what happened snow.
On the third day,http://www.ishugui.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=101367, the snow did not go. Son relationship and I made very stiff. Please tell me I'm the snow phone her home,nike tn italia, and her parents want to talk, because I want to travel the day after a month, I think, who's parents do not want their daughter to live in such a small outside, snow parents certainly do not know this. But the snow did not give me the phone number.
I do not like her not stingy to live, they are so small, if not hold sexual impulses how to do, how after the end?
Girls should not live in my house? Feeling very sensible son, and his father's advice, I did not seek to put his girlfriend to the family intends to stay for a summer vacation. Son does not talk to me these days. In short, I feel very helpless, very confused. Is the generation gap is too deep, or what the reason. Always enjoy diving on the 19th floor, today deliberately applied for an account, the first issue to make things at home,http://www.hlhweb.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=460636, please give me reminders and ideas. Especially students and parents after 90 friends, how do you experience this? Xianxie!
Snow sent a text message as follows:
1. aunt, yesterday I did not tell you my home phone, first of all apologize. Please be assured that I will not in the future to your home hastily bother.
2. With regard to "sex" This thing, maybe we can have a conversation, I know you are not the kind of feudal parents, as you said, sex is a beautiful thing, and I think so, and his beloved people having sex, it is not shameful thing, right?
3. I also talked Jingjing these topics, we are actually more worried than you, after all,woolrich sito ufficiale, if an incident occurs, the primary victim is us. So far we have sexual relations has not happened. Although four times before I talked in love, but has maintained virginity.
4. People are always afraid of loneliness, especially when he was out working hard, when someone wanted to spend, do not you? If we only focus on learning, career, and feeling thin, that in the future to fame when they really find true love people to grow the youngest? That, even if your son was very successful, he will not be happy.
5. Maybe I'm not a smart girl, but I've seen smart girls how noble as it would not have. I believe that girls should own efforts, which is why I was determined to test to Europe to learn the cause, not just talk. I think we should create a platform for me and Jingjing future, rather than verbal promises.
6. I think that a person's independence is multifaceted. Although I Jingjing current economic independence yet, still need their parents, but we have become, there were the right to choose their own path in life,http://sumsy.com/steven/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=824663, regardless of whether it is good to go this route, somehow personally to go, is not it? Care for our elders, want to give us the best way to the guidelines, and we are grateful.
Content of the post soon attracted a lot of friends lively discussion, replies from the content point of view, the users' opinions are different.
Duyi rise:
The girl's tutor is very problematic. She lived out her boyfriend at home for three days,http://momo.cowsit.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=382181, the parents turn a blind eye? Small age (19, right?) Has been talked about four in love, do not feel too much love? Since people love and love is a wonderful thing (so can openly say, I do not believe have not done that), let her do the work. Better to call your son to spend some measures more effective!
rshen:
Girls suffer more point, do not worry too much, let his son do the measures on the line. But this girl is not very strict tutor estimate,http://www.mrmdian.com/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=19702&do=blog&quickforward=1&id=320426, just outside overnight and responsible girl parents certainly would not agree.
wsxdr999:
The girls will suffer, in fact, such as a mother's psychology is very normal for, after all, no parents are willing to watch their children to be injured, I want to include the girl's parents did not want to!
Love Proverbs:
I think the age of the child's cultural values conflict will become increasingly apparent. Perhaps you and your son have some full exchange is a good choice, rather than simply the exchange and girls. If you can not communicate calmly and son, I think, and girls are more unbearable.
There are many users feel that times are different, parents not too strict.
leayoung:
Chinese parents are always endless parade of heart, you have 19-year-old son, and also why care so much? After 18 years you have to learn to let go of his own responsibility of it.
Well Nm down:
Sister let it go, it is not you that's it!
jdy Ajaccio:
I would think that this girl is very good! Do you think now is when you're young that time? And she was right really good ah, the way is to rely on their own to go!
Many users also talk about their views on sex:
AndreMerritt:
And other son married before having sex, this is not you can control. Is unrealistic,hogan outlet, this girl though still small, but I see very sensible, at least, is very reasonable.
All baby:
Unnecessarily tangled on whether to have sex, but should teach them how to protect themselves from harm, should teach children positive about contraception.
The sky is blue is beautiful:
To tell the truth about sex, perhaps they had occurred outside the relationship! Now the children are too precocious, and for only a matter of sex.
Yesterday, several of my acquaintances I start this, I asked a common question: Do you think a 19-year-old boy to his girlfriend home with you?
Sister Lee (born in the 1970s, Riverside in a food factory business promotion manager, his son on the junior year)
If I were a parent who, I certainly do not agree with this girl live at home. Even the parents into the snow, but also do not agree with her to live in the family home to go. How do you say,moncler uomo,http://www.baishiquan.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=327546&fromuid=25958, someone describe our 70s this generation of people, most of it is quite traditional. No matter what the world developed to a degree, as parents,nike tn requin pas cher, love, respect, respect for the individual, but for premarital sex, premarital cohabitation, or not allowed.
Chow (32 years old, Renhe a printing company salesman)
I may be the reason from Henan countryside,http://bbs.xisan.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=144996, thought to be the feudal point. Girls want I understand, but I do not support her behavior, I do not agree with the attitude of the boys at this age they can not find the focus of life, I think they're the only thing to do is to take place, well done studies, after the road is still long yet. (I say, how you stand on the stage like a speech, saying that the point really! Chow said, where! I really think so.)
Liu × (male, Chinese Media Institute graduates, in May of this year just to get the admission notice of the University of Hong Kong Graduate)
Whether it is 80 or 90, among them also a good example. Individual human behavior does not represent a generation features, like this girl is actually sensible, but her boyfriend to live at home, parents have the opinion,http://bbs.7so.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=212960, and I do not support her such behavior. If I was that boy, so long as the parents properly told me that I was willing to listen, the key is a good way to communicate.
HE × (female, 30 years old, the operator, has an 8-year-old daughter)
I was able to accept this phenomenon, a lot of buses can be seen after 90 children cuddly, when I come home in the dark corner of the cell often see little boys kissing girls cuddle in there. But as a mother, I do not like their own children in the future to do, if I were the mother, I was determined not to live in the house of the girl. |
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發表於 2015-2-17 10:26:56
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