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Not asking the students had a birthday together! Not allowed to use mobile phones, MP3, MP4! A netizen recently opened its parents will experience hair online, children on the first day in a prestigious Nanjing, teacher parents at the meeting, "issued the" N number of personality requirements for parents to supervise their children strictly enforced. Near-stringent provisions caused a controversy,http://bbs.51life.biz/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=71460&fromuid=7438, and some parents even behind the school practice, some parents direct "brick."
A prestigious Nanjing introduced "Ray" provisions for disciplining students -
Not allowed to see the Hunan Satellite TV, CCTV recommend watching
The friends of this child is not easy to enter on a popular middle schools, shortly before the first family conference, we attach great importance to the results of the teachers at the meeting issued a N many rules, so that parents of recording. "I have heard many strict requirements, and some very good, some 'mine' me."
So many parents doubt there are three requirements: First, during school hours (Sunday - Thursday evening) are not allowed to watch television, home on the weekends are not allowed to look at Hunan TV, it is recommended to see CCTV-2, CCTV-10, CCTV-9 . "These are what economic channels, educational channels, the English Channel, just started this 13-year-old children will like it?" The second is not too birthday with the students; the third is not the use of electronic products, including PSP, mobile phone, computer, MP3, MP4 and so on. "The teacher talked about mobile phones and computers in particular, do not require parents to give their children ready PCs and mobile phones."
Posting users said, can understand the starting point for the school to do so,tiffany outlet, try to put an end to outside interference, so that children are placed in the heart study up, but their method is debatable. "We want to foster the kind of child? Bookworm? Now the child is not good education and I understand, but where's the weird teacher requirements? I think as long as the children are interested in learning, to read books is certainly inevitable This type of education is not no use pressing, I just feel inhuman. happiness is very important, even read a good book, a child's psychological distortion,http://blackbaseball-abc.com, and unhappy, and you will be loved by children? "
[A dispute] Hunan Satellite TV to see the weekend allowed
Even behind the party: "Super Girl", "fast men" can not do teen idols
"During the class (Sunday - Thursday evening) are not allowed to watch television, home on the weekends are not allowed to see the Hunan Satellite TV," parents are bickering caused most of a provision. "I absolutely support the school's practice, this is tight school parents only worry us." Children at a school in Nanjing on the first two days of the parents told reporters she had got her children in the experimental classes, teachers also have similar provisions. "What 'Super Girl', 'fast men' ah, the most attractive in this age the child's attention, but those Super Girl,hogan interactive,http://www.mon-ju.com, fast men should be our time teen idol? Are they life and values children can emulate it ? "Parents also behind Wang school rules, he thinks, rather than let the children go to those programs is not as crazy to read more. "A lot of variety shows are exposing people to privacy, to make fun of others entertain the audience,boutique louboutin paris, such as" Happy Camp "in several host in there specifically to do 'Clown' was caused pastime humor, and often reveal the star's privacy, off Shoes measuring height, so 'spoof' program is not conducive to the formation of values adolescence. "
Paizhuan side: children laugh and laugh together much better
"Prohibited'm not sure which channel to see the school I was the first time I heard, really long exposure! Friday is" every day ", Saturday is the" Happy Camp ", Sunday is the" courage ", it should be said is part of the country a leader in the entertainment variety show,http://www.xmarks.com/s/site/www.tadayumi.sakura.ne.jp/apeboard_plus.cgi/ning,/, I would quite like to see,http://www.bjyoubika.cn/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=261284, to laugh, why should limit their children to see it? "A female parents believe that children learn one week down the string taut, total Only two days watching TV, these programs also fun Coke that in the end what is not suitable for junior high school kids to see? But not put anything racy. Also in junior high school children on parents Yao believes that Hunan TV programs can not say how many educational, but not to the point where not allowed to see, sometimes feel that "every day" program in a lot of things still laughing from inside Tasting the point's contents.
[Controversy II] can not live with the students birthday
Behind side: avoid comparisons with each other a waste of money
"This provision ah well, my child now in elementary school,?%A7%E6?%A7%F1]http://www.yashima-tanuki.net/cgi-bin/tkbbs1/tkbbs1.pl?page_num=1]?%A7%E6?%A7%F1, and now they send a squad, especially popular brands of imported candy,air max, kids birthday which would buy and eat a lot to the students, it is prone to jealousy of those, give the family Poor economic conditions caused by the burden of students. "Parents, a second grader said. "Our family conditions in general,http://www.ginzanogaro.com/content/view/37/57, the kind of candy you'd like to buy 100 yuan of money,http://www.leme.pt/pesquisa/search.cgi, but not bought, they will hurt the child self-esteem, and now there is no unified regulations birthday is not such a problem." One of the parents on the child three days believes that a dinner party is actually a manifestation of human contacts in the adult world, for such a small child to learn is the first one, if the focus on the other aspects of learning certainly be affected. "Parents are actually spend money, a birthday dinner at least several hundred dollars please no."
Paizhuan side: junior high school students also need social
"The kids actually started regarded as small adults, they have friends, social circle, birthday wish with small partners too is a very normal thing, why artificially suppressed it? As long as the appropriate adult guidance can, over together can also be very meaningful birthday! "One parent said her son birthday, children will bring a few good partners to the park barbecue grill their own very interesting, cost is not high, two adults and four children spent only 200 yuan . "Our children can mingle with friends, the atmosphere was very cordial, very happy son later told me that his friend is also very fond of us." Some parents think that maybe the teacher is considered to be too extravagant birthday together, that Just to remind parents to pay attention to it, no need to expressly prohibit the children go out to play.
[Disputed three] students can not use cell phones, computers, MP3
Behind side: At least half of the school children have a mobile phone access
A junior high school teacher, told reporters that she also expressly provides that the phone can not be used in class. "Now the phone features too strong, I have an occasional on Baidu Post Bar found that many children in the class even when the class is still posting a secret investigation was shocked, at least half of the school children have a mobile phone when it In use the mobile Internet. "Now the school where the teacher usually to confiscate mobile phones clearly defined, if not to return confiscated, if the plot tap the parents to pick up the end of the semester. A children's parents told reporters two days before his son bought a cell phone, the results of a month down even sent thousands of text messages. "It was horrible, how much of his energy to spend on the phone? We had to buy him a cell phone for safety, now found more side effects."
Paizhuan side: how the information society is not mobile computer line
"Now is the information society, no mobile computer is how the line? A piece of paper does not mean that the teacher will be able to ban provisions living." Parental child Chow is a computer game fans, but also for the child to have his home computer to sell all of the results is the child secretly went to Internet cafes, other students home to play, but also learned to lie. "Now I know that is nor can it block the block, I simply allowed him to play, but there are provisions, such as how long each day, learning progress can have bonus time, etc., he reported back to a programming class, let him play the game interest shifted to other areas, the effect is really good, the group entered the school of information science contest. "Ms. Xia also considered electronic products attractive to children is too great, nor can it block the block is. "We have no way to get children back 'ears do not hear out of the window' of ancient times, it is frankly welcome change all the high-tech, and I listen to music to relax with child advocate MP4, you can also listen to practice speaking English, very good of. "
● RAP
"Demonized" results
May be counterproductive
□ Bi Xiaozhe
Hunan Satellite TV really is not suitable for young people to see, is a matter of debate, but the school self-centered mentality and preconceived prohibit students weekends at home watching Hunan Satellite TV is overvalued their educational capacity and over-identification of students and underestimated judgment. Such a provision in the case of students not willing, to prohibit this? Parents can not all the time looking at what their children watch TV, in fact, may not be fully accredited school rules, such a provision will inevitably become a dead letter.
Students now have the physical and mental development of early, middle stage has been basically formed their own outlook on life and values,air max, "the mandatory order" provisions to restrict what kids watch TV but just the opposite. In addition, more importantly, adolescent children more than in the rebellious stage, do not rule out there will be such an embarrassment --- the more you forbid, the more "demonizing" certain things, but it happens with your children confrontational. Under such a paper called "ban", but why specifically looking to be "demonized" Hunan Satellite TV's children's school, maybe even more.
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發表於 2015-6-22 21:10:47
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