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Jiangxi Pentecostal peasant woman 18 years adoptions more than 80 abandoned babies abandoned local Civil Affairs Bureau official said the future will focus on support
Horse Spring Festival, Jiangxi Dexing City Bank town of New Village 50-year-old peasant woman Rao Mei Xiang pitching moment. Shabby brick room,[url=http://www.my0768.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=83588], red couplets express a festive, six disabled children frolic in the room wearing a new jacket outdoors, Rao Mei Xiang in the snow washed diapers for children, hands cold cracked hole.
18 years, since the shelter orphans and disabled children, Rao Mei Xiang and then did not return home for the New Year Shangrao, and relatives began to lose contact. Relatives say she was stupid, to a bunch of strangers, "Silly boy,Louboutin Botte," from their homes, but Rao Mei Xiang always Hey smile, she said, to take care of these kids big is the wish of her life
Text, graphics / reporter Xiao Huanhuan
Speaking of home-old mother, Mei Xiang Rao could not help choking, which seems touched her heart the softest place. 18 years, due to the care of these disabled children, she never returned to her parents had had a reunion years. Spring Festival this year, she and her husband kill the pig, but also put a burst of crackling firecrackers, that is to celebrate the kids are safely past year, no one died. You know, most Rao Mei Xiang adopted abandoned baby is sick, congenital heart disease, thalassemia, cerebral palsy, so many years past, many children died because of illness, a child died every, every heartache for several days on Rao Mei Xiang . & Nbsp; & nbsp;
18 years, 85 abandoned babies for adoption
Winter of 1996, Rao Mei Xiang opened the door, saw the door stood a infant. May be too cold, uttered a cry baby. She entered the room without thinking put the baby to hold, for fear of the children nipped.
"Good children, parents how so heartless." Watching the children flushed face, Rao Mei Xiang's relented. She found a local health department, officials have so much love to see Rao Mei Xiang, on the proposal of the children in foster care in Rao Mei Xiang home, give 150 yuan monthly living allowance of orphans.
Rao Mei Xiang had a habit of children, so they agreed. Tian Ming Jiaohai this abandoned baby, suffering from polio since childhood, hydrocephalus, when got home, standing firm. At that time the neighbors tried to persuade her that the child will not even walk, a look that is a burden, but Rao Mei Xiang said, to adopt a child is Jide, as long as eat fed themselves on the line.
Zhuzheng Li was not supportive of her husband, because it was very difficult family life, his two sons are in elementary school, the couple are rural farmers living by farming. In order to support their family, her husband also often rode a bicycle to the county scavengers, to support their family. Even so,AaAty9vMve, family life is very difficult. But Rao Mei Xiang on the child's enthusiasm to her husband's resentment slowly disappear. In order to feed the abandoned baby, the couple decided to eat only two meals a day, the province out of money to children to buy milk and diapers. The most difficult time, the couple only a day to pick up the remaining food markets, the couple cope with cook some porridge to drink.
Subsequently, the locals know Rao Mei Xiang special shelter abandoned, people often do not want to take care of the baby lost in front of her house. 18 years, taking care of her orphaned children, a total of 85, most of the time, Mei Xiang Rao family who take care of 15 abandoned babies. Currently, she adopted an abandoned baby in the United States to study and some have been to. & Nbsp;
Better than the son of orphans
Rao Mei Xiang couple had wanted to rent a local farm, but the first couple to adopt an abandoned baby began, their lives changed completely. Because most children have no self-care ability, these children with more difficult than normal child. Every morning before dawn, the couple quickly got up, her husband Zhu Zhengli fire cooking, Rao Mei Xiang to children dress, wash, fed. In good weather, she would also hold these children to go outside in the sun, then, to get to the front of her work in the fields. Evening feed the rice, then hold to bed. Put away every day, late at night, until then, the couple can cook your own meals.
Husband Zhuzheng Li said: "She a man busy, I had to help her except farm work, used to take their children are not so tired." These children need care at home because, Zhuzheng Li did not go to odd jobs at home before 10 acres to now only 4 acres of rice planted.
Today, despite the civil affairs departments of subsidies, but to feed six children, Rao Mei Xiang days or a rigid. "6 kid eat at least five pounds of rice, the Civil Administration gave me 970 yuan a month subsidy, there is one, is already 23 years old,Louboutin Pas cher, have epilepsy,jyRilxyzpB, beginning this year, 3,000 yuan subsidy each year, and now, barely able to eat rice. "So far, Rao Mei Xiang is still living in a broken tile, and even no money stucco facades. Farm alone, the couple monthly income less than 1,000 yuan.
Why the day was so hard, but also to adopt so many children? Rao Mei Xiang said: "These children were born to be abandoned by their parents blame the poor themselves, plus it is not normal children, people looked really pathetic, to say they are a life,Louboutin Mary Jane,kGH4343V7p, if I do not take care of them, they had estimated and he died. I just hope they can live another day is the day. "
Rao Mei Xiang's two sons have grown up, a 27-year-old, a 25-year-old, now in a local courier company when the courier. He recalled the situation when his own child say, the mother of their child did so good, at first they do not understand the practice of the mother, and even some "jealous" mother of the mentally retarded children than to their son better. But over time, they realized that the mother is not easy, but also come to understand his mother's practice, they start with the mother's helper.
Hospital care for abandoned children playing ground floor
Rao Mei Xiang's children hospitalized are common. April 2002, the Civil Administration staff holding a newborn baby boy over four months to Rao Mei Xiang Xiao Ming Tak foster home. De Xiao Ming grew up with congenital heart disease, especially thin, day cough, high fever when the temperature reached 41 ℃, high fever, red little face, burned boiling hot all day, crying endlessly.
Xiao Ming first in the City People's Hospital inpatient stay for two weeks, but no effect; and later to hold the silver town hospitals live in a day hospital, no improvement; then,ra0Gmaypht, the couple will go to the City Hospital Xiaoming,eA2Iy68blo, treatment for two months,Louboutin Baskets Femme, or with little success. After two and a half months of treatment, doctors are helpless, that this child can not be saved. The couple looked at by Mei Xiang Rao pain and suffering Xiaoming cry.
Holding the dead horse a living horse medicine mentality, the couple riding a bicycle with a small light to see a suburb ten miles away famous Chinese medicine, their own money to open a dozen deputy medicine. After serving the herbs, Xiao Ming fever back.
At this time, because for a long time sitting, Rao Mei Xiang had a few days did not sleep, and he was sick and had to be hospitalized for two weeks, in order to save money,Louboutin Bottines, Rao Mei Xiang choose to play on the ground floor at the hospital floor.
Later, the German Xiaoming operation was a success, it makes all the hard work Rao Mei Xiang feel are worth. At the De Xiao Ming Yang was "plump", the civil affairs department informed them that someone wants to adopt little understood. We heard the news, the couple cry all night. But seeing the children have a good home, only tears Rao Mei Xiang gave the children of others.
Many abandoned children have a good home
18 years, most Rao Mei Xiang worried, it is his own and raise a child away from her. March 2000, Chris Foster was adopted three years away; February 2005, Germany Xiao Ming and small Debbie were sent Shangrao orphanage; in July 2009, five-month-old German small high came; last year In June, a little girl again ......
18 years, this kind of "greeting sent," Rao Mei Xiang went through I do not know how many times,[url=http://dfzjw.jjkj.cc/home.php?mod=space&uid=9406][/url], when this time, Mei Xiang Rao heart is very tangled. Ten years of hard parenting, when children one by one jump, have left her, this number so that Mei Xiang Rao some feel their own "fruits of labor" was robbed. But the thought of the child has a good home, only tears Rao Mei Xiang let go, because this is her greatest wish. "I'm expecting someone to adopt them both, but I really was reluctant to adopt."
Over the years, Rao Mei Xiang is the most obsessed Deli Juan. Debbie was born only three days to be sent in 2002, Rao Deli Juan Mei Xiang kept for three years, and later, after her leg healed, it was led away. Deli Juan after being sent away, she went to the orphanage Shangrao seen it three times.
Because of disrepair, Rao Mei Xiang has been dilapidated bungalow home, become dangerous, the children play at home is not safe. Last June, the couple built a three-story building, but owed 60,000 yuan of money out of debt, it is not starting. "I will take the child, not asking for anything as long as I have a little strength, I must take care of them large, reduce the burden on the community." Rao Mei Xiang said. Since the children are sick, incontinence, diapers each moon have spent several packages, in order to save money, Rao Mei Xiang is sometimes made of old clothes clean diapers, then washed, reused.
Dexing City Civil Affairs Bureau deputy director Tong Shenglin representation, & nbsp; case of such private adoption in the near future will be changed, Dexing City, the establishment of a social welfare service center, which will be transferred to children with disabilities, where centralized support. By then, "Rao Mei Xiang" their burden will be greatly reduced.
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