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Xinhua Lanzhou February 24 (Reporter Liang Jun, Bai Liping) Chinese New Year is a holiday reunion. "Every festival pro," will be going home wandering out of the holidays, the annual Spring Festival are particularly tense. However, some young people "nearly nostalgia mood," afraid to go home New Year, known as the "fear of return family."
Not to buy tickets,http://www.jingjuren.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=10207,scarpe hogan outlet, 27-year-old Zhao Xiang decided not to return home New Year Gansu, but his girlfriend at the workplace Guangdong New Year. He said that compared to not buy tickets, the home of relatives and friends of questioning, too intangible to bring their own pressure.
This is the second time in the field Zhao Xiang, the Chinese New Year. 2010 in Guangdong work every day fighting for the cause throughout the year with little time to go home to see. But last year and this year's Spring Festival,http://www.wifigx.com/forum.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, he chose the New Year in a foreign land Guangdong.
"In our home, New Year's Day is going to aunt, aunt, uncle, aunt and other relatives at home New Year,http://202.196.96.128/hands/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=602071&fromuid=116451, regardless of where family, work, marriage is a matter of concern most elders." Zhao Xiang said, when normally work flow, and face many problems will upset, feeling that they did not reach expectations elders.
"How much salary? Buy now? Ready to get married? This is probably the three issues most young people in China today face of the dare." "80" Yao Zhizhong in Xiamen, a business work, return home during the Spring Festival, Gansu, The most embarrassing is asked why he has not been nearly 30 years of marriage.
Zhao Xiang, Yao Zhizhong said that the Spring Festival a "spring robbery", before his home was urging the marriage, now married later was the birth of a child, usually far away in a foreign land and family reminders lack of communication together, Spring short time,louboutin femme, only to find the elders and exchanges between the younger generation already exist insurmountable divide.
In view of this tangled and trouble, on social networking, "Spring home wildcard Raiders" "Spring home how to deal with the relatives of questioning" and other "home technical posts" also took off. "Home Technology Tie" greatly sought after in younger Internet users, only to deal with the younger generation to return home soon after the experience of the "Chinese-style cross-examination."
Reporters found in the "fear of return family" in rural areas out of the college students and rural migrant workers account for a large proportion,boutique louboutin paris, while many respondents said they would produce a kind of status anxiety, such as outside work hard not to make performance, life stress and so on,http://www.huatai123.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, "people called home" is not an isolated phenomenon.
Gansu Provincial Party School professor Transureteroscopic opinion, behind the Spring Festival, "fear of return family" is the family and the reality of tangled, but as long as rational number, be patient, for the family to see heavier, so-called economic and marital problems,http://testbbs.cnopt.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=283298&extra=,timberland scarpe outlet, do not It should become fetters and obstacles. Sometimes pay more attention to the results,http://www.haosi0755.net/home.php?mod=space&uid=19168, ignoring the process. People focus on their own evaluation of others, fear of others, or think they find themselves unsuccessful unsuccessful.
At the same time, fear of young people reflects their generation under tremendous pressure. Pressure both from the society, but also from the family. "Socially, the imbalance of social development,http://www.huihaoyi.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=335702, young people from rural to urban areas, it is difficult to obtain the same benefits of urban household population. The family, parents still maintained traditional thinking, want their children to succeed, homecoming,http://www.zlt0512.com/forum.php?mod=forumdisplay&fid=44&filter=typeid&typeid=28, but also hope that they married early success of this secular criteria, without considering the harsh social reality. "Junping said.
In his view, the social system reform and innovation, promote social fairness and justice, becomes critical. People look forward to a better education, more stable jobs, more satisfactory income, more reliable social protection. All this need for reform progresses,scarpe hogan 2015, gradually solving social injustice, an equitable social security, entrepreneurship, career and employment opportunities for everyone to enjoy fair starting point, and for all provide a fair increase in channels. I believe that with social justice is coming, "fear of return family" will be less and less.
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