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Evening News reporter Cheng Yi photo coverage
A 60.3 yuan in electricity bills, let Feifei mom did not sleep well all night, compared to the previous month no more than 30 yuan of electricity, heat wave this year will undoubtedly make the already crumbling family more difficult .
13 years old Feifei is a typical autistic children, to take care of him wholeheartedly, DING at work after his birth to give up,http://www.yuntuziben.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=5129856, a family of three state-owned enterprises to work alone in his father, though poor they lived happily ever after. But late last year, Feifei father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, a monthly medical expenses now accounted for almost all the family income, at various pressures and hardships, the family on the verge of collapse ......
Autistic son, husband diagnosed with terminal cancer
"Feifei, sick father, and my father was very ill, you want to know a little good?" And many autism families, these 13 years, Ms. Ding are doing the same dream that one day suddenly doctor announced Feifei is not autism,http://www.lionbrandyarnstudio.com/cgi-bin/faq-search.cgi, it all just Feifei and they opened a joke. But wake up, DING know, it all just a dream,air max outlet, life still has to continue, Feifei also need to take care of her husband needed her support. Since the know Feifei father was declared cancer late in the night awakened DING always really sleep will sit beside Feifei, touched his head,http://www.blogharbor.com/cgi-bin/page.cgi, over and over again to tell his family of these cases, although Ding mother knows, Feifei and can not understand what is "good" and what is called "the father is very ill."
14 years ago, the relatives, Qingdao Ms. Ding and her husband met the girl. Although there is a certain gap between the two, whether or education from the age, but the power of love to make binding the couple together, along with the small mom is decisive Feifei father came to Shanghai life. Shortly after their marriage, they will have the love of the crystal,http://www.sczlsy.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=170131, the second year, filled with both expectations Feifei born. In this case, the small mom 36 years old, and though far from old Feifei father came a son, and has more than 40 years old. Ding mother's memories, Feifei childhood autism symptoms is not obvious, it is opening up to relatively late,http://bbs.smnet.com.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, like a person playing. Until the age of three, children enter kindergarten ready to send small mom was told that the child may be suffering from autism, the need for further confirmation.
Autism What does it mean? So how lovely children may have autism? DING apparently can not accept this argument, immediately took Feifei came to Shanghai Children's Hospital. After some checking, the results came out, three years old was diagnosed with autism Feifei.
With the child reading the "second primary school,chaussure nike tn pas cher."
For autistic son, Ms. Ding has always been convinced that only let the children into the normal child's life, to make his symptoms improved. So no matter how difficult, she is willing to make all kinds of attempts. Although belonging to a place to live in Baoshan District, but only for a child with autism Fuduxuexiao is at the other end Baoshan District, if the children to and from school every day to give at least four hours. So the small mom decided to let the young flies to normal elementary school nearby.
After repeated communication, the Feifei home near a big town primary school willing to accept Feifei Regular Classes. Although it is normal to enter primary school, but for the demands of parents will be increased, and that is to be read along with daily DING. Thus, a full five years, DING perseverance every day, accompanied by Feifei Regular Classes. I get up at five in the morning, ready for everything, the seven out. Feifei in the classroom lectures, she was sitting in the last row of notes, although the results Feifei and not recorded in school performance, but she is still trying to let him learn to read, write, and learn how to do math. After help Feifei tidy bag four classes,louboutin femme, and then took him home.
In June this year, he finished fifth grade Feifei graduated, as a college graduate DING jokes that he has read a primary school.
Strong mother alone the heavy lifting
If the home has an autistic child, it is bound to have one of the parents can not go to work. For the lack of social, especially age is relatively small, life is difficult to take care of the children, as parents can accompany the child beside him all the time. Feifei home, too, the small mom has not worked for 13 years,http://aipmm.org, the family alone meager income her husband eke out a living. With the small mom's words, although previous life not rich, but everyone has been very happy, very satisfied.
Late last year, I have felt ill Feifei father strongly persuaded his wife to the hospital to be checked. When the "advanced gastric cancer," the medical certificate was handed DING hands, felt a sense of desperation. "Just like Feifei year was diagnosed with autism, I do not know why there is so much suffering in our home." Suffering for some time, she quickly wake up, because she knows that now she is at home only pillar, if she fell, her husband and son, there is no way to live.
It is lively 13-year-old age, Feifei, too, even at home, he also endlessly around. In order to give her husband a doctor, Ms. Ding left hand at any time may run away Feifei,hogan outlet, right arm frail husband, take the early bus arrived at the hospital chemotherapy. During Feifei father in hospital, in order to save money, not willing to please, she took care workers Feifei accompanied by his side that he could not sleep a wink busy days. Now discharged Feifei father can only lie in bed every day, due to lack of nutrition, people have thin off shape, even so, the family monthly income and expenditure has also been stretched.
Autism parent support intractable dilemma
"Ding mother is very strong, are reluctant to participate in activities before each talk about the situation at home, even then tough, she would go to face with a smile." Because of a few did not participate in the group's activities as Shanghai Autism Parents responsible for rainbow fraternity mother DING play to call, this informed Feifei home encounter misfortune.
Yesterday, reporters accompanying rainbow Feifei mom came home. Just ready to enter the room,http://www.healthcarehall.com/viewnews-24802.shtml, the door is deformed blocked. Originally,http://www.fan.hi-ho.ne.jp/cgi-bin/user/moonlight/fantasy.cgi, the house there was a certain degree of settlement, plus has several decades of Fangling, the door shape. To save money, Feifei home and did not replace the door, each door must be forced to lift up at the door to open. Cracking walls, a few years did not open the television set was a huge blanket cover up,air max pas cher, in addition to a bed or a friend sent intact, the other furnishings have been broken.
The room was hot, sweat dripping constantly. Because there are guests, the small mom immediately identify the air conditioning remote control to open it. After seeing my mother this move, Feifei suddenly excited again, once stood on the couch, hands in the air vents in front of the whole person. "Fantasy particularly like air conditioning, electricity can be expensive, only ten p.m. open for a while after I dare to air conditioning." Such a move seen son, Ding mother's discourse is full of distressed. She told reporters, as the autistic child is very sensitive to temperature, once too cold or too hot, are prone to mood swings, sometimes seem very upset. To try not to let Feifei mood swings, not a sudden out of the house, and then a difficult life, Ding and her mother decided to adopt the open air so that the temperature of the house down a little.
Since Feifei father ill, you can only get less than 2,200 yuan a month's wages, in addition, due to the small mom never worked, so the family's income to rely on 2200 yuan to support. Which also includes a monthly fee of chemotherapy and other medication the cost of all medical care. "Sometimes a month of drugs and chemotherapy costs more than 2,000 yuan." Even so small mom did not mention the initiative to others until the autism parent support will be informed of such a situation. Although many of fraternity autism family is not wealthy even say that it is difficult, but we are money to pay resistance effort, competing for Feifei family donations. You 100 yuan, 50 yuan me, so just a week's time, nearly a million donations were handed a small mom's hands. While this family, the money can not play a significant role, but with the small mom's words, is to give her the courage to persevere.
However, reporters learned from the rainbow at the mother, although at present the whole society for autistic children have a high degree of concern, but for those who have grown up and no longer a child or adult with autism have families, are facing the same problem, and that is that parents get older, the children go. Due to the care of an autistic child, parents often pay ten times the effort twenty times, long-term fatigue and psychological stress so that these families feel more tired, more parents are suffering from various diseases. And many children with autism, as parents, 50-year-old mother had less than half of the small white hair. Reporters asked about her physical condition, the small mom said, since after giving birth Feifei never thought he would get sick, she absolutely can not get sick, because for Feifei, she is his all, if she has fallen it Feifei lost all focus of life, she can not imagine that day.
Because next Feifei father also need further treatment, the cost of a large gap. How to get the family through difficult times, they still need the community to help. Here also we hope that we can reach out to help a bunch of Feifei one, even a little help also enable them to have more courage to live.
(Original title: 60 yuan bills for the whole family did not sleep well one night)
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發表於 2015-6-27 20:05:51
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