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& Nbsp; Legal Evening News (Reporter Hou Yi Yun) a 6-year Shanxi ordinary peasant couple, experienced the ups and downs of 26 years, adopted more than 40 disabled orphans, and now, eight children have trickled into the classroom.
Chen Tian Wen as saying by man of the house, they are from another man's "fool" a little into today's "model."
When bad when the house "Legal Evening News" reporter into Yuanping floor Xiang Zhuang Village this smell, a few eyes erratic child lying in bed, anxiously mouth open and other food, the door of a child curled up legs the desperate crawl forward, his mouth vague speechless, carrying a bag with several other children to school. For the future of these children, the couple is full of anxiety ......
Origin
Freemasonry couples to adopt children with disabilities
One evening in the summer of 1989, Chen Tian Wen in Yuanping City fertilizer plant working work with his wife Guo change then walking home. The couple saw the side of the road a dozen people in the crowd. Chen Tian Wen couple found a baby girl. "The baby in a cardboard, thin and small, his legs crossed, a look that is a child with disabilities." Chen Tian Wen recalled.
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"Saw this baby, I feel there is a fellow sufferer." Chen Tian Wen said he was first rescued the child wanted to say. Thus, the couple would hold back the baby. This year, Chen Tian Wen has been nearly 40 years, the family of three children are in school, the eldest son has been on the junior high school.
Since then, Chen Tian Wen repeatedly seen abandoned orphans with disabilities from the gate, the river and large trees, every time he clung to the "life-saving" mentality, these children home.
Adoptive home until three or four children, the Civil Affairs Bureau was informed about it, they take the initiative of some disabled children to his home. "At that time no welfare, the Civil Administration gave 150 dollars a month per child subsidy Let us support." Chen Tian Wen recalled.
Plight
Family transition into life washing diapers feeding
More and more children, his wife Guo change then too busy to take care of, so, Chen Tian Wen resigned from the fertilizer plant work together by farming and his wife take care of these children.
Chen Tian Wen family house less than 20 square meters of two rooms, the children lying next to one another through the covered, most of whom were limbs disability, cerebral palsy, cleft lip is also the lightest degree of disability.
Sleep every night, Chen Tian Wen couple three or four times every night to urinate, one by one for these kids feeding, changing diapers, a baby crying, the other children will be awakened. Wait until a child more than six months later, at night without feeding up. Chen Tian Wen was about to break,jordan pas cher, the new child will be sent, and the cycle continues.
Children from more than a few dozen to start, and the Civil Administration in the monthly subsidy of 150 yuan was enough to buy a can of powdered milk, Chen Tian Wen family circumstances worse.
Home movies diapers piling up, the family had no washing machine, summer Fortunately, winter, minus 20 degree weather, she had to wash clothes in the river and took out a Bingku. "Every time I come back washing, hands red with cold baked on the stove, heartbreaking feeling pain."
"Whether it is a cold, fever, diarrhea, a child got sick, it will spread to other children." Chen Tian Wen said, they will have to run an average of twice a week these hospitals and clinics, severe cases almost every day to go.
The eldest son of grievances runaways living in poverty
Over the past decade, Chen Tian Wen-year savings deposit these are Taoguang, rely on to borrow money to survive, a person facing the situation.
However, the couple went to the village to borrow money, but often run into a wall. "Some of them would say face to face, you are not stupid, and he so poor, but also to raise these children with disabilities."
Gradually, Chen Tian Wen found that sometimes he went on the road, hit the village head, had wanted to say hello, but the villagers turned or pretended he bowed his head. The village has something to notify, the villagers do not want the door, only to cry and left. "Children at home, smells bad smell, the village people are not willing to come to my house."
Not only the villagers do not understand, there's eldest son Chen Tian Wen Chen Junwei.
"Since these children come home, I go to school food is getting worse." Chen Junwei recalled, after he finished high school, junior high school had originally planned, but because of family economic situation is not good, we had to go home farming and by working to supplement the family income . This allows Chen Junwei difficult to understand parents' approach.
Day in 2002, Chen Junwei again and parental conflict. Dispute, Chen Tian Wen will be hidden in secret for many years, said his heart out:. "In fact, you and they are the same, that I adopt a child to come"
This sentence angrily Chen Junwei incredible moment he left home.
Eldest son learned that his personal life is adoption
Chen Junwei away for several months, during work, the workers always take him make fun of, say there is a factory worker like him: "? That is your brother now."
One day after work, this man find Chen Junwei eat. At the dinner table, he told Chen Junwei: "I am your brother, then more children because the family can not feed,escarpin louboutin pas cher, so you gave someone else ......"
It turned out that Chen Junwei next village was originally a people's children, his family was poor because more children, he is premature children, the family is worried not make a living, wanted to find him a family. Later, Chen Tian Wen acting in good faith, they adopted him. And this secret, it was Chen Tian Wen conservative 20 years.
After that his personal life, Chen Junwei met his biological parents and brother, but his heart but more miss at parents home, turned back to the parents home.
The first two back, Chen Junwei have dared to door, he was just lying in the door to sneak a look at the case of adoptive parents to buy things on the door and left. The third home, he could not help, I rushed into the yard holding mother's hand: "Mom and Dad I'm so sorry you, and you pay too much ......"
Later, the Civil Administration has sent three children. While nearly 20 children crowded into a Chase covered, Chen Tian Wen couple had no place to sleep at night had kang edge of lying head to head,http://canherb.com/fund/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=9464, no way to undress, legs stretched straight.
Chen Junwei eldest son's wife is not easy to understand in-laws, he offered to go out and Chen Junwei renters, to make room for an old married couple and the other children. "They both lived at the time that the poor condition of the house, also took five children to help raise." Chen Tian Wen very pleased,air max outlet online italia, but he has several children was full of wanting. He knew, because they adopted a child this behavior, so that the family was originally from a wealthy family to come today, but also because his family was poor so that only three children read to the junior high school.
Connection
To help the plight of the sick body good
In 2007, the years of reform fatigue crushed Guo Ran's body. "At that time the doctor said, I a bad heart, no longer tired children, or else there is always danger." Guo change then said, when both decided not to raise these children.
"Mom and Dad back!" But just a home, the children swarmed quickly, the two men around the middle. Guo change then said, her heart suddenly melted by these children.
Chen Tian Wen heart is full of sadness, he asked his wife how to do? Guo change then abandoned the idea before, "as long as we can live day to look after the children day and multi-day life of the children is good."
In 2012, the couple and the children's lives, was made into a movie, on the web. The film attracted widespread attention, also won that year's Shanghai International Film Festival awards.
Since then, people have continued to offer love for children contributions, donations. Some want to adopt a child, some want to subsidize the children to school, and some raise medical expenses. The Government will also be issued to each child's adoption monthly fee to 1,000 yuan.
With these donations, volunteers help Guo change then the couple bought a house in the village, and named it the "greenhouse", meaning is to "flowers" grow freely here, happy bloom.
More and more are coming to the couple who honor. From the province to the country, "moral model", "beautiful family", "moving people" honor after another.
Even the village's neighborhood has changed its previous view: "So people are not stupid, it is a good thing, is exemplary."
The couple is very grateful, because with the help of good people, children go through different levels of treatment, including five children has been basically restored to health.
Plan
Tomb Sweeping child is "heartstrings"
In Chen Tian Wen eyes, children's sensible is his greatest comfort.
Get up every day in the morning, the first thing kids do always climb back Chen Tian Wen calls out "Dad, good morning!" At dinner, the children will not eat their own, Mom and Dad are trying to take their food bowl .
It is the thing about these children, so the couple to give up all these years for the adoption of children with disabilities have a lot of "reluctant."
"26 years, before and after the adoption of the family had more than 40 children in total, in which nine children died, 12 children were to adopt someone else." Chen Tian Wen said that 90 percent of these children were in his house back in the umbilical cord, raised from childhood to large, they are his "heartstrings."
This nine children lived only a few months short of the longest lived to 14 years old.
Annual festival,air max femme, Chen Tian Wen will go to the cemetery to visit the children died. They were buried in the Chen Tian Wen own land, no tombstone unmarked, only Chen Tian Wen know the specific location of these children buried. Every Chen Tian Wen went, always give the kids burn burning paper, biscuits and other little things they love to eat, then knelt on the ground and they say half the words.
Every time a child died, Chen Tian Wen will be sad for a few days: "The village people say I have so many children, died a still so sad, I said people would never see him again gone more children, you too. see that one of the. "
"Now if someone wants to take the child, you like it?" The reporter asked.
"We live in a time, or do not leave them!" Guo change then refused.
They hope to send children to school by children good education
Today, Chen Tian Wen and his wife of 12 children,http://onigdesign.com/error.html, the biggest 26-year-old, the youngest only 6 years old. In addition to four children can not study because of health problems, and the remaining eight children went to the village school to school.
Chen Tian Wen said that after rescue these children, we must consider the future of their survival. "Nowadays, no culture can not survive."
Every morning, the villagers would see Chen Tian Wen pushing a wheelchair, Guo change then carrying a girl, there are six children surround around them, walked together to the village west of the village primary school.
Good to see the children learn, Chen Tian Wen very pleased, but his heart also has its own plan: "I still hope to be slightly larger child, can these healthy children to the city to go to study, vision will be more open, after the village limited teaching conditions. "
But his idea and the reality still some distance, one is cost. "Every child is now in the village primary school year book fees will need 440 dollars, if sent out, book fees plus other costs may be much higher." Guo said change course. On the other hand is the child's account problem, Chen Tian Wen adoption of these children has been no account.
"Civil Affairs Bureau in their accounts of their subordinates in a nursing home, a collective account, not my guardian." Chen Tian Wen said, he worried that this child out of school "Account" not useful.
Heritage intend to make early arrangements given to orphans
Last year, Chen Tian Wen intends to give these children a healthy person to buy a life insurance, four thousand dollars a year, a total of 15 years of insurance. "I think now gives them aside, if someday we'll be gone, they'll also be some subsidies, but because they are not a guardian can not make guarantees, the money was returned."
Later, Chen Tian Wen called the two sons, told them:. "You have grown up married, no longer need to take care of my parents, brothers and sisters still small but except for these children after school money, other money will average to these children. "
Chen Tian Wen in the heart of every child made arrangements. He hoped that healthy children can go to school life like a normal child, after the child's lower limb disabilities enter technical school to learn the craft, and serious physical illness child as long as possible to ensure that life, until the last moment of their lives.
Wen / Li case investigation Hou Yi Yun studio Reporter camera / Legal Evening News reporter Guo Qian
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