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Faced with high energy throughout the urging of his family situation, someone turned a blind eye, it was forced to peace talks, some fought back. In "Every festival is marry" This Kaner, it was to appease the relatives and friends, but fail to beat the parents; it was perfunctory parents, but ultimately cross that off,http://www.aq336.com/news/html/?4845.html, but their own.
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Whether the network "Transocean blind date", or direct face to face contact, as of now,http://www.wzgwbn.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=16408, all together mother and defeated all the arrangements. Qi Qi said that his reason for accepting the mother again and again do not fly arrangements, are worried that their disobedience will embarrass mother in the circle of friends, but will also affect the relationship between a mother absent blind and acquaintances.
Talk about himself, Lili Xiao respect, although he has a girlfriend, but both parents can not wait for the kids this year to complete the Marriage, "Hao Fan, children are too poor to feed,gioielli tiffany, waiting to get married off it "
"Anti-forced marriage", the youth take to the streets
After finally being asked achievement age gone again be forced to age, 24-year-old Qi Qi said, "really do not like a blind date, because the scene has never been very embarrassing."
According 李立霄 introduction, and we get to know the network has been more than a year to see them all day, I have been to marry Tucao things that he will inspire them "happiness hold in their hands." Although we are friends relationship, but Lili Xiao admitted that "In fact, sometimes,http://www.jmcity.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=169317, people are more willing to talk with strangers, there is no burden."
Lili Xiao said he hoped placards through the streets so that more people are concerned about being forced population, but also hope that parents and relatives are aware of their own problems, trying to convey not just the "anti-forced marriage", but also important is the "master of its own life. "
Faced with relatives marry, bluntly,http://fzqpcw.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=42173, "None of your business."
- "Fake crazy not insane," Qi Qi once to arrange a blind date showed contradiction, Qi mother would cry opposite;
Qi Qi said, according to the experience of the previous few blind, Qi blew the whistle on the mother's ability to close the mouths of "lore", comparable to the art of war:
Even seeing the future, it must report the age of "30" take-off, but the king Sanmei say, he is still looking forward to love, but also enjoyed the single life, while "left women" is nothing but a reckless label. (Respondents should request the text characters are not his real name) (End)
A voice pointed out that although today's young people are often better trained than their parents education, have a wider knowledge and life prospects, but did not shake the authority of the Fathers. Parents rely heavily on the development of children's investment, education to parents of tuition, job to find the relationship between parents, parents to buy a house down payment, meager wages or unemployment to "bite the old" struggle for existence "fight father" type so that they may not be willing to to maintain a close relationship with their parents, and strengthen the original family control of them. Thus, modern young people still rely heavily on the original family.
李立霄 one of the initiators of this action is the name of 90 boys,orecchini tiffany, according to him, this action well-known participants was 28 years old, his family a week to organize a blind date, arranged so that it is physically and mentally exhausted. "This can no longer be wonderful," and Lili Xiao said.
But ten days, Lili Xiao as the woman left QQ group number of the establishment of nearly 200 people. In these frequently flashing pop in both young people encourage each other, they are also filled with loneliness, complaining and unhappy.
"If the family has unhappily married, and I said: divorce than a man too good with children," Wang is not afraid to talk about their Sanmei this lack of courtesy "up the knife." In her view, these words are not relatives scenes heartfelt concern, urging for unmarried young women "are busy all right."
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The other side, Zhang parent Zhang mother to marry banner never fall. "Your baby almost peers in elementary school," "Me and your dad all right at home, a child will be very good, so I am old took no more" ...... which makes this leap tiger and frustration and guilt: " because of fear to marry, I began to take my parents did not love the telephone, sometimes more talk about the more angry phone will leave. " He also said that because the parents 20-year-old gave birth to their own, so to see his son's marriage has been "no news" is very anxious.
Zhang Run Hu said, were removed from media circles these years, and to get along better themselves and a few friends of the opposite sex. However, non-marital child's play, and own the material basis is not hard enough, mentally not any building, "so only slowly come to bite the bullet." He also said that he had to find a friend to help cope with the idea at his family, but "did not want to lie to their parents."
(Original title: Every festival was forced: Spring suffered intergenerational concept confrontation)
But Shaw Minamata think, "This is not money worship, is to give his daughter to protect both the quality of life there, so just compare the value of economic strength, that I agree." He also said his friend did not love freedom, but it should be noted,http://www.gzscpf.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=131474, "she overly dependent on the family."
"Urging them to remember how, but I will answer 'none of your business', then there is no then the." Sanmei king said that this is her true response, but also the quickest way to shut up the other side.
Mother forced "forces such as God" blind date put in New Year's Day
- "Looting" in her busiest time to feel good object forced upon her, allowed no time to judge it, "the spot";
Beijing BEIJING, Feb. 21 (Xinhua): 90 into the series, "was forced family" have Yan money into hard targets
- "Fait accompli", over her comments directly to get together, even if the man is unknown, but also told her blind date can be expected;
Author: Chen Yi Xin
In the end what is considered to be "left over" A survey shows that the majority of women believe that men 35-40 years old is not married is purely remaining men, but most men do not think marriage is 30-35 years left men. Most women believe that 30-35-year-old woman left will be called, but eighty percent of men think a woman is over 30 years old woman left.
- "Become masters' mother overview of various sizes throughout the dating process a transaction, even asked her to report truthfully every detail to meet.
"You poor, do not pick and choose!" Mom's words cross in Zhang leap tiger heart for many years. Ever since 2010 a "drift north" since respect from Hubei Province who claimed the "small place" out of the boy, there is no target, nothing for families to marry.
University, professional, love ...... every major event in the life of the beam also are the parents make a decision. Their friend Xiao Minamata attitude spectator commented, Leong points three threshold requirement: if the generation of family property rich, then looks seen in the past, to undergraduate education; Should not "Kuanye", then the other party shall be graduate student; if the other side is the family business, "dandy", then there is no requirement for qualification.
Qi Qi admitted that all resources have benefited from his mother's matchmaking network of acquaintances, but as a mother-in-pipe cadres is a strong competitiveness in the heart of a woman. After his mother succeed in their careers,http://blog.appflint.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=9434, want to put the outcome in his body cast, excessive focus on Qi mother let her daughter into anxiety. "Fear of Marriage is not me, my mother, for fear I Jiabu Diao,tiffany outlet," Qi Qi said.
Let Qi Qi surprise that time and time again,http://gghww.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=18359, "the spot" type of blind, made him increasingly become calm, the mother absurd arrangements make her panic. Although there will be upset, but she has put together a set of guidelines to deal with. "When the whole is to see customers," and a wave of Qi Qi said, "find the object just to find a job as."
I do not want to leave their parents care hotbed, but eager to mate begun to taste the taste of freedom, this winter, the beam can eventually follow orders of their parents, and "expired trial" objects "touch and see."
Also in the parents' circle of friends, "their food",nike air max pas cher,http://baike.huadiewang.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=35900, Gansu girl Liang also almost completely subordinate to the family say. She comes from a family of intellectuals, he is now studying for a master's degree. Due to strict childhood tutor, feeling lack of experience, her parents worry about not discerning the daughter find an object in this matter, then the lack of economic empowerment, citing denial of her daughter for the first time the results of free love, turn from their own circles "Taobao."
So marry, worked hard for many young people in the big cities like a "protracted war." Front foot just entered the threshold of 30-year-old not stand, Wang Sanmei hometown friends and relatives to come to cast her fierce "fire." Due to a wealth of "combat experience", the Northeast girl bluntly, "I can already freely switched to the various 'earnest care' of shielding."
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Such sentiments at the beginning of February this year, had received a small-scale outbreak, a group of "young women placards Shanghai Spring forced parents to resist" the picture led to a public concern. Picture, five young women holding "Mom, do not forced the New Year," the slogan coming downtown to conduct a silent protest against forced family and friends.
Some commentators believe that the values in the past people have school-age married life should then factor in parents' wishes, so the past few forced marriages. Today, times change, parents' generation still the traditional life style regulation next generation, but young people are already in the concept and some non-compliant behavior, eventually leading to the intergenerational concept of division and conflict.
During the Spring Festival, "forced marriage wars" route through the holidays renewed war. Due "80" who was to marry because while and when friends "fierce battle", the start into the marriage and threshold "90" are beginning and "forced Corps" playing the Spring Festival encounter.
"My blind date turned out to be arranged in the New Year's Day, I am deeply drunk," Qi Qi students returned just before the Spring Festival in Shanghai to find a lawyer's job, it was the home of the mother immediately pushed into a blind date again army. To marry this year, Qi mother no less care, and New Year's Day arrangement is to marry Ram Qi mother started action "first shot."
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