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Mom every day to inquire about his son's words and deeds, recorded in the book his son can not stand, attempted suicide attempt
Expert: children do not want anxiety,brazilian hair weave, parents first "calm"
Henan Chinese Commercial News reporters Song Xiaoshan and Li Yapei
In addition to external factors, the heart of the world's children,http://my.5754.cn/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, is not enough "security"?
March 23 morning, the Henan Daily Henan Red May United Community Alliance entered the Zhengzhou City Fifth Middle School, brought a unique psychological experience for more than 60 junior high school students, to share the language of positive energy.
Story
His own mother to see tight "knife" the
March × day, Li Tong playing hit man, but not an apology.
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June × day, the students said Li Tong to a female classmate interesting. (Puppy)
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It is a mother's notebook to record his son Li Tong (a pseudonym) words and deeds in the school, content from teachers and classmates. More than a year, this notebook almost full. Under such a "concern," Li Tong do one thing: attempted, attempted suicide.
After the Spring Festival, my parents came to Zhengzhou City with Lee Tong healthy growth of minors guidance center.
Ms. Wang Li Tong's mother is a civil servant, father to do business, good home conditions, Li Tong is the only boy at home, not only good, performance has been very good, have been writing prize. On the junior high school, Wang believes that this is an important node in the child's life, the future can not be on a good high school, on a good university,woolrich outlet online, find a good job, both junior and his son's performance related.
Thus, in addition to Li Tong sent to and from school every day, she would be with teachers, students talk about the performance of Li Tong, said something, do something, and use the laptop recorded.
Notes stopped in 2012 New Year's Day, and before that Li Tong tried to attempted suicide. The move ended the "death cycle" more than a year: the school drop-out,peuterey donna, away from home, go to school ......
Li Tong said, he always remember as a child and my parents spent with joy. Available since junior high school, my mother began to write those notes, a long time, like being stripped of their own, like, no secrets, no self. "I am not for myself, do not know why alive, death is dead chant."
He did not want to communicate with their families, "to hear her (mother) speak, I felt sick."
In the counselor's suggestion, Li Tong's parents decided not to compel his son to go to school, and in the form of indirect communication with the paper exchange. Ms. Wang still anxious: "15-year-old did not want to go to school, after doing?"
Investigation
Refrain students considered "Family problems"
Henan Red May Community Alliance responsible person Liu Lei said that the past two years, through the 2362 primary and secondary students received psychological counseling for analysis, which Liucheng children are high school students, four percent are students.
In the middle school students,http://211.86.128.2/gjjl/Review.asp?NewsID=595, there are more than eighty percent of child anxiety problems, but students are mostly found inattention, like doing little tricks and other behaviors.
According to psychology to analyze, whether there is any kind of problem children, have their roots in the parents. Mapping the child is the parents themselves, there is any kind of problem children, parents who have the corresponding reasons.
According to the Henan Business Daily thousands of survey results show that nearly thirty percent of the students think that they have difficulty in dealing with parent-child relationship, much higher than the "teacher-student relationship," "the opposite sex" and other options.
Li Tong to experience, for example, the reason why counselors recommend communicate note, is that the parents can use the gentle way concerned about children, children with language warm heart. For example, you can put a little note in the child's bedside, "have a good meal,http://www.adinm.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, in the kitchen, eat when you heat it in the microwave." Children are good, long time, do not force the parents, and that they It will be made to go to school.
Countermeasure
With the nature of the "positive energy"
Xiao Han girls fifth of Zhengzhou two days,http://bbs.xyzili.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1001965, three days, she is about to ascend a little worried, "the first two days had already felt the pressure, the curriculum than before, feeling a little work hard to keep up."
March 23,http://0771r.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Xiao Han and the students in the guidance counselor,woolrich outlet italia, and nature to a "close contact."
"Choose the most comfortable position, relax your body, gently close your eyes. Imagine yourself standing on a scenic hilltop, surrounded by trees, you can smell the scent of flowers ......" experience started guided counselor of next, the students each adjustment the most comfortable position.
"I can imagine is a front lawn,air max outlet, full of colorful flowers." Xiao Han said that although just sitting in a classroom, close your eyes to imagine these things, or so she has a special feeling of relaxation.
"This experience is mainly to make adjustments to the students to learn the status of children in the state of total relaxation and give them a positive forward guidance." he said, with language to create a natural environment, you can easily bring joy to children The experience and natural positive energy.
Want Children are not anxious parents first "calm"
Now high school students is a major psychological problems of anxiety, this anxiety comes from the schools,http://www.hisubway.cn/thread-5445358-1-1.html, parents, teachers as well as children themselves, including junior and senior high school students was most evident.
Xu Jinxia said, which requires students to learn self-regulation, take part in sports, there is truth to timely talk, learn to express.
"In fact, there is a slight anxiety is normal,http://zazna.com/selection/index.php?item/create_form/1, parents should not be too tight, do not over-concerned about the child." In Xu Jinxia opinion, is not anxious to get children, parents must learn to calm, and with a positive and optimistic mood to infect children . |
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