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Only 60 years after the loss of production of female adventure
Sheng Hailin: "My experience can not imitate"
The Chinese most older mothers have 4-year-old twin daughters, mother and three recently confided in Suzhou
60 years old, this is the age old age children and grandchildren around the knee, but the mother Anhui loss alone but at this time choose the "rebirth", gave birth to twin daughters through IVF has become China's most advanced maternal age. Now this has been 4 years old twin daughters, smart lovely.
The evening of May 23, 64-year-old twin daughters bring together on stage Suzhou, a parent-child program, families with several other young parents with adorable baby is different, Sheng Hailin looks more like a child's "Grandma." Scene, the mother to tell her audience parenting experience special hardships and bitterness of the past.
Yang Yang intern
Yangzi Evening News reporter Gu Qiuping
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Looking back
"My daughter is gone, I can not live with"
Tingting and her husband Wu Jing Sheng Hailin state is the daughter. Sensible and well-behaved, she gave this family of three every day immersed in happiness.
2009 Spring Festival, Tingting and her husband married four months back home in Anhui Chizhou grandfathers and grandmothers, young as 28 years of age Tingting and her husband did not come back, because unfortunately both died of gas poisoning. said she did not dare to today recall that scene,http://www.divorcesource.com/cgi-bin/dsearch/search.cgi, when you got the news that she had fainted too sad.
Sheng Hailin and her husband brought to its knees. In the cemetery next to her daughter, Sheng Hailin even prepare yourself a piece of the cemetery, while husband also felt not live long,doudoune moncler femme, crying every day, heavy drinker, and sometimes even get a drink at midnight 12:00.
Last night's show live,piumini moncler, try to remember scenes, Sheng Hailin city choked several times. After only child of gas poisoning,http://meguru.jp/cgi-bin/joyful/joyful.cgi, Sheng Hailin into a deep guilt, the overall feel is their own fault. No church is his daughter simplest knowledge of life, did not let his daughter dangerous consciousness, so will the next tragedy brewing. With such deep guilt, Sheng Hailin think, has no future, harder alive than dead.
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Perk
"I will be pregnant again."
Many relatives and friends to see Sheng Hailin couple so painful, it is recommended to adopt a child they come out of the shadows. Sheng Hailin couple even thought of many ways to adopt children and surrogate police and other ways of being trafficked,doudoune moncler femme, but ultimately did not succeed adoption.
At this time we have entered old age Sheng Hailin made a bold decision, she wants to re-conceive their own children. But a 60-year-old has been to re pregnant is definitely not a simple matter. 60 years postmenopausal, entered the aging period, do not have the conditions of pregnancy, in order to conceive, it is necessary to break the law of growth, allowing the body to return to the young state.
China had also not such a great age but also successfully test-tube pregnancy precedent, so Sheng Hailin will undoubtedly become the first person to eat crab. Sheng Hailin to break the limit fertility practices, but did not get the support of her husband, Wu Jing states think that there are too much risk. Experts also recommend Sheng Hailin do not take risks. But Sheng Hailin knees seeking husband was drinking, and even threatened to divorce her husband. Finally work pays off. At that time, young couples, the highest success rate of IVF is only twenty to thirty percent, many people tried many times without success. And Sheng Hailin after three months of physical recuperation, just tried again, successfully pregnant.
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Pregnant woman
"Before the operating table, I thought to write wills"
Long March only the first step in a successful pregnancy. already 60 years old, the biggest test of the pregnancy is the heart and cardiovascular, lung and kidney, liver and spleen can not bear the pain caused by pregnancy toxemia, the most serious consequence is likely to get cancer, and in addition to other The side effects of the drug itself, it will also produce such as dizziness, swelling, loss of appetite, nausea and other symptoms, and these symptoms during pregnancy almost have had. And even more dangerous is that during pregnancy, Sheng Hailin almost walk, in the hospital for check-ups, rely on a wheelchair pushed.
Sheng Hailin himself as a doctor, more than anyone else know where risk. In a pregnant woman every day, Sheng Hailin are cautious, she said, as long as any kind of behavior may lead to miscarriage, she will not do it. Sometimes cough, she should hold it. Really make her feel fear at the moment, she is about to give birth, when "was even thought to write wills, of dying on the operating table." But Sheng Hailin teeth still survived, and finally, in May 25, 2010 Caesarean section birth to twin daughters, "a large 3.7 pounds, 2.9 pounds less." Named Wu Shangzhi, Wu Shanghui. A loss of single family,http://stone.jurlogy.com/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=316302, and finally another way to get a consolation.
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Happy return
"Mom, as you get older, and we pull you away."
Sheng Hailin a daughter now 4 years old, very cute. Speaking of sisters name, Sheng Hailin said proudly, is to let the girls have "no noble wisdom." And two daughters and her husband did not live up to expectations Sheng Hailin, as long as people have seen them, they are constantly boast smart. In Suzhou this file "Baby you're great" parent-child program, stage carrying a pair of twins, in the parent-child game, Wu sisters After cutting the cake, do not eat their own first port but points to the mother to eat , won the site a round of applause.
Sheng Hailin said, normal life, sometimes there are awkward times. Daughter's peers would call himself grandmother, and two daughters, but kept shouting around their own mother. But Wu sisters particularly sensible, and sometimes break up with somebody, Wu Sisters and my mother said:. "Mom, I did not grow up, you can not die as you get older, and we are holding you go" also happy He represents, have children, there is hope, in all aspects of four years down the body and so she and her husband is well. Sheng Hailin, said she had fearing neither hardship nor death, but she was afraid of dying now, she wants to be strong and healthy to live two daughters, I have been to live to 104 years old!
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Forget sadness
"There is a new happiness, but the pain will not light."
While the arrival of two daughters to lose this once only family brought a lot of joy, but still can not forget the pain of the death of the eldest daughter. Since the death of her daughter during the Spring Festival, so she up to now, but the Spring Festival. In the education of two young daughters, said: "Because that field has experienced pain, so the two young daughters of education than education for the eldest daughter to a little strict, let them know the basic life common sense. "
Although out of the pain of loss of independence, but Sheng Hailin still have to face many practical problems. She said that now sorely lacking is physical. As it has been 64 years old, she and her husband can only ask her aunt to take care of one pair. Prior Shenghai Lin and his wife's pension only enough of their own pension, but now, in addition to also keep small pension, the monthly spending two daughters on up to $ 10,000. But he still did not yield daughter hundred days Since her speech everywhere, at least one day in one place, as many as two or three days,hogan outlet online, and now she traveled almost the whole country. "I can do is to accumulate as much as possible for the children some money. I'm 64 years old, almost to fight for our children." She said other physical worse, is fixed in a city, "even if do not do health lectures on In the hospital to be a doctor, a month's income is also very impressive. "
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Sincere advice
"My experience can not be imitated."
Sheng Hailin elderly woman thing produced so many infertile families have found hope, have to find Sheng Hailin, hoping she can provide advice. But Sheng Hailin has said: "My experience can not be imitated."
She said that many times, especially during the Spring Festival, the New Year when the aunt back, she and her husband would have to bring their own two daughters, when the day is often the most difficult time of her,woolrich outlet milano, often mind-boggling.
"Many times, I even thought the child should throw to the ground, hit the wall, I know, I was in a trance of." Sheng Hailin said that to two daughters, she was rushing around to make money, but also because of his own life two naughty daughter and earth-shaking changes have taken place.
Because it is a doctor, so now attitude toward IVF was more cautious.
"I hope those who still want to have children, we must first have the ability to consider a good education, he is responsible for the child's living environment. Second, look at the adults their bodies okay, if not as early as possible to dispel the idea, otherwise not only keep small also can not support the old. "Sheng Hailin even bluntly," I'm healthy, have medical knowledge, good family, like me, not many people go through, so I can not follow suit. "
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發表於 2015-11-12 14:23:33
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