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I hold her with Half-Life
 
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August 31, 2009 morning, when the reporter asked for an interview on the phone about Hongyu,http://www.disasterriskmanagement.com/forum/profile/sdvioia6o2, he hesitated a little later, with a very standard Mandarin, slowly reporters about the period between himself and his wife Anna Shear disarray Love -
 
Let me introduce my basic situation. 36 years old, I was a cancer patient three times, and this may be difficult to understand what the average person, but it just happened to me.
 
In early 1994, the first cancer, I stubbornly stood up, then the feeling is a rebirth of life, did not notice before, everything around becomes so good.
 
In early 2004,chaussures louboutin hommes, my second cancer after surgery I stubbornly stood up again, then the feeling is that I want to present in front of their loved ones.
 
In December 2007, my third cancer after surgery I stubbornly stood up, this time someone told me I was strong! In these encourage me, comforted me, help my good man, and did not figure my wife Anna.
 
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February 5,http://clashrobotfree.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=4083, 1993, 19:00 more, met when skateboarding on a street in Beijing, I and Anna. On this day, I remember very clearly, because every year since then the February 5, we'll both be quite grand to spend this important anniversary.
 
It was not love, I do not know what love is, just like friends as contacts, I did not officially go to her home, her father always business, but met with her mother, her mother, a very good impression on me, and said, She shortcomings more, let me help to help her.
 
At that time, near the opening of a university classroom, we go to the classroom after school hours to read, by the way tell her something only human that I know of. She was very willing to listen, and frankly, and she has never before spoken these principles.
 
Anna did not know how long I found that she was particularly fond of lying, often behave reckless and arrogant. Sometimes I'll buy her some small gifts, say issuers. At first she will be very happy in the chat, she will somehow produce a rage, then in the hands of a little bit broken hand hairpin, eyes full of hatred. I feel just do not understand and shocking. All this was in my eyes, all belong to a child is not sensible, with age, it will gradually adjust over. And it turned out, this is impossible.
 
Her relationship with her parents very nervous. I heard that her father often drunk late at night and go home, and then beat, curse, vomiting, her father often suffer beatings.
 
Perhaps for this reason, and she told me very strong dependence, and his home run into things that do not communicate, listen to me, including voluntary reporting when the university entrance exam, how the university and classmates after graduation to find a job, there is no lack my help.
 
After more than 12 years of love, 2004, we got married, based on a very complex emotion, love? Is friendship? Or whatever else ...... I do not know.
 
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I have full contact with Anna's family for 16 years, and I get along with her father was not very happy.
 
At first, her father did not agree we got married, and finally fail to beat Anna, he began to be a bride price. He said to me: "Pork is also a few dollars a pound of it, my big girl on white to you?" I have my mother to hand though 10 million of money, but mostly used to buy a house,http://www.klxxzl.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=22642, but also to prepare the decoration and the purchase of household appliances.
 
Later, her father tried to get a red envelope has to do the wedding. Anna and I feel like a waste of resources,hollister france, not to do. Her father has been brooding on the matter, we are married for several years,http://www.114sn.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=8606, he still misses go through it.
 
Every time to see her dad, can not go empty-handed, had to take things. When leaving, her father said: "The next to come back, ah, you do not bring anything, if you have to take it, to buy ......" These words made me very disgusted.
 
A meeting, her father old and I said so and so their units died of cancer, and then looked back at me repeat:. "Dead." I listened very uncomfortable.
 
Anna and I walked in the ups and downs, Bumpy Road in 16 years, looking back to see if the outside less distracting, and allow us to live a calmer, I think we will continue to go on.
 
Anna feelings I turn and that she subsequently frequent contact with her father, and I think that her father always wanted to dig our little corner of the house, such as her uncle was ill, her father let Anna go to, but also to point to some money ......
 
Marriage
 
Although I did three operations, but I like normal in every respect. Anna in the morning at 5 o'clock to go out, 19:00 back more. I often do the rice, and the bath water burned, she entered the room the first thing is to take a bath, then dinner. Sometimes she would wash the dishes, then lying on the couch watching TV, watching it asleep. I waited for her to sleep almost took her back to the bathroom, let her teeth, then her back to the bed, tucked her.
 
I studied advertising planning professional, worked in a world famous brand watches, a Hong Kong agent, has high income. Later, I plan in any subsidiary of a major newspaper advertising companies, mainly real estate planning and production of advertising and exhibitions. In 2002, I feel like I need a break, then quit her job, at home, devote themselves to write novels. In order to ensure a source of income that time, I also do freelance writer. After marriage, I not only clothes, wipe, cooking,http://www.eqtang.com.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=117150, Anna returned to write papers, and eligible for a lot of awards, she can earn so much money, and achieved so much honor, it can be said to be stepping up my Half-Life .
 
Her character is very violent, it will be installed. Her lies came very fast, and then I gave her pierced, another lie and over, which can be considered a personality characteristic, I was numb. We fight,http://www.baicaohu.com/news/html/?1453.html, she loves angry, copy mop up what hit me, I did not implement too violent for her.
 
After the 2007 "October" holiday, she had a student's mother in Hong Kong to buy a piece of Swiss watch gave her, I said that the table is too expensive,louboutin homme pas cher, and not to accept, she insisted insisted. Having this matter later, we wander a lot of other things, she took the mop to want to fight me, I snatched mop the floor, she angrily kicked the mop handle, kicked out of the blood of the big toe. As a result, she called her father, said to be home for a few days, I never come back to live.
 
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Since then, Anna has three times away from home, money and an attempt to evade legal obligations couples emotional and economic. During my treatment, she told me the life and condition of indifferent, even when I was in urgent need of a spouse in December 2007 signed by surgery, the hospital refused to sign. My whole body was filled when the tube is introduced after the operating room, she does not have any representation in the hospital corridor,http://gallery.lightspeed.ch/displayimage.php?pid=5729, is just an excuse, "busy" and then sped away, has never appeared.
 
In July 2008, in my mind and body extremely vulnerable during surgery and chemotherapy, her "marriage acquaintance not long, hasty marriage" as an excuse, I will be prosecuted to the Haidian District People's Court, she asked for a divorce.
 
During my chemotherapy, can not deal with the matter in April 2009, many lawyers and legal experts to help me in court, there is no final court judgment we divorced.
 
I always ask her what time to spend short ah? So many things happen, short it? What she wants to obliterate what is it? Many of the key things in these 12 years there, including the purchase. We live in this house, although this room is her name, but it should be our common property. Then, while I chemotherapy,tiffany outlet, while siting, formalities, inspection room and then later renovated, after spending more than a year.
 
Treat me no money, and now with all my mom pension money. Remove health insurance can be reimbursed, the costs for medical treatment expenses of more than a dozen million.
 
I think Anna's performance constitutes abandonment. I do not understand, we love and live for 16 years, in my heart and soul with the help and guidance, she slowly on the right track in life. From normal social norms and ethical point of view, when I was in trouble, my wife Anna, how can so unfeeling? Her behavior makes my body and mind has been a great blow to the hospital I had been diagnosed with anxiety and depression. And her current attitude towards my treatment and rehabilitation have a serious negative impact on my quality of life and mental state into a bad situation, and also deteriorate further.
 
Thus, in June 2009, in accordance with the "Marriage Law" under the "spouses have the duty to maintain each other. Party does not perform when the duty, the need of maintenance shall have ask for alimony rights" content,http://www.wikiporno.org/wiki/User:GnoiIg7j4i5, and my wife Anna prosecution the Chaoyang District People's Court, made an order to perform duties of the spouses to maintain each other according to the law, I pay monthly living expenses and medical expenses 3000 yuan; and pay my medical expenses have occurred,hollister sale, living expenses and the costs associated with the treatment process.
 
Wanted to have fun, she is now over 30 years of age happens to fall into two equal parts: the first half and her parents live; the latter part of my life. For her future life, I feel very slim, of course, I have not care so many, or let her go go. In fact, she has now left home, leave me, my mind is feeling relaxed, hit a vivid metaphor, these 16 years, I always carried her body this heavy burden, and now she left, the burden off automatically, while not my irresponsibly discard it. So I have a clear conscience, feel relaxed, there has never been easy.
 
Of course, for me, I have put down the burden of joy, but also the kind of halfway frustration.
 
(From "Law and Life" fortnightly in September 2009 under the fortnightly)
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