In the end should be honest with the elderly

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The family moved back to his hometown, but the 87-year-old mother was determined not to go back to the eldest son insisted and so the reporter Ma Chaoshe
 
Lies a big brother to play mahjong lost hundreds of thousands, not from money ran
 
Mother: First, stop calling him a spendthrift, but a few days,louboutin homme, you ramble, "a man on the outside how he had, ah," let the family go
 
Lies 2 families turn out for a few days, came back and said,Piumini moncler outlet, brother ran to go abroad, come back
 
Mother: In foreign countries, people do not come back, how do not call
 
Lies 3 dozen international calls are expensive, big brother can only send information via computer
 
Mother: Tell him we must take care of yourself, to make enough money to come back quickly
 
13 years ago,http://nade-khad-civi.seesaa.net, her brother died in a car accident, the mother can not afford Sangzaizhitong Palao, Leung and his family began to trouble "lying." 13 years later, the family returned from Xianyang Hanzhong home, while the mother was determined not to go, be sure to wait for his son to come back. In the end not to expose the "lies" and let Leung family dilemma.
 
Without telling his mother buried her brother
 
"This blink of an eye, I also over 60 years old, stayed in Xianyang entire 13 years." 10:00 yesterday, in Xianyang east on the road a humble casserole shop, Leung boss while finishing dishes in the kitchen, while whispered.
 
Originally a small business to Xianyang is her brother, mother moved here, except to go to school, pick-grandson, still in the restaurant to help. "Later, my brother drove out with people hit did not come to save." Recalled the family tragedies occurred 13 years ago, Leung eyes moist. "At that time the old man not afraid to accept, she would have happened again, we could not before this day on." After a few brothers and sisters decided to discuss without the knowledge of the elderly,http://mm.kaiye.la/plus/feedback.php?aid=52, quietly put his brother's casket was buried back home.
 
"If you want it and my heart really is not a taste, my dad died early, we are six brothers and sisters handedly bringing up my mother. My mother always followed my brother, all children are Loved him, the results did not see even one last time the. up to now have dared to let her know. We say he playing mahjong lost hundreds of thousands, not from the money and ran. "
 
After her brother's place after Later, Leung family and I come to Xianyang, took care of his mother's mission, "he has dared to bring his mother back home in fear of people say accidentally slip of the tongue."
 
Ms Leung said these when she was 87-year-old mother sitting in front of the store, staring at the muddy and from passing, saw someone coming towards the shop door, she had been staring.
 
Come meet brothers and sisters made "lines"
 
Small business, hard naturally Needless to say, while the harder thing is to continue to Yuan Huang, divert the attention of the mother. "We told her boss lost money and ran, her first stop cursing spendthrift, deserve, let us who also do not control him, but a few days, they begin to ramble 'a man on the outside how he had,woolrich outlet italia, ah, there no money, 'let us go. We do not she got angry, a few days without food or drink does not speak. "fail to beat the old man, Leung turn out a few days later he came back and told his mother that his brother went to go abroad , and come back. "She did not want us to go out looking for people, not much talking, sitting front of the store was empty, stare at the street, sit all day, and said so on his son back." Leung said that after the death of her brother, sister-in-law also he remarried. Ten years time, the old mother a lot,http://www.aurosiksha.org/login/index.php?item/create_form/1, there is little smile on his face, walk shuffles, so that the eyes nor ears but very effective. Saw a man get together to whisper, would ask is there news of her son.
 
"Mother often talking boss in foreign countries, people do not come back, how does not make a phone call. We lied to her to make international long distance calls are expensive and can only send information via computer." Leung said that in order to play some more realistic she and her husband bought an old computer, but also learned the Internet, "a few days to open a computer,http://wjl.wssjc.cn/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1569800, then fabricated a little news to tell her that my brother sent me, saying he was busy in there, the business Yes. "
 
"The old man listened to laugh sometimes, so tell my brother must take care of yourself, make enough money to come back quickly. Sometimes what is not said the words, which makes the human heart is very nervous, afraid to slip of the tongue. Now Mother do not ask, do not know if she guessed the truth. "Leung said.
 
"Every time I meet when brothers and sisters, are also a good discussion in advance. The spade what not to say, to advance to remember the simplicity of the word a good job in front of the old man we are careful enough, did not know she could feel exception does not? "Ms Leung's sister said by telephone.
 
Old son is reluctant to return home, etc.
 
Last May, when the old mother is sick in bed water does not stick, pulled their hair crying son's nickname: "It's raising a beast ah, your mother was going to die and you do not come back ! "
 
Bottle hanging a few days, the old man finally restored, no crying too,http://www.7mbocai.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=272234&fromuid=1616, continue to sit in the shop every day, and so on. "Looking at her like this, we do children's heart which is also suffering, sometimes thought, she was not as old and confused it,doudoune moncler pas cher, so you do not remember what, do not torment adult to adult."
 
In torment, Leung's son admitted to the university, studying to go to the field, the store's business is not very good, but people are old dry not move, she and her husband would discuss with the shop disc out back Hanzhong home.
 
However,http://repository.hyogo-u.ac.jp, the stubborn old mother kept up, she was determined not to go, saying that his son stay here for a lifetime, back when we supposed to find her? "Talking shop being with others, the price almost on hands, now is not persuade her. There is no way, and sometimes also like a cruel tell her the truth, afraid she can not stand. She suffered a lifetime of pain, old is also not feel at ease. "Leung said, tears welling up.
 
Expert opinion
 
 
 
Can "trickle" to inform the elderly
 
Alone in the face of major changes, especially if you want white-haired people who sent hair, is telling the truth or the lie to conceal the elderly? In the reporter interviewed a number of people in Xianyang, many people said or hide as well.
 
Riverfront district residents Ms. Cao: Last year my nephew did not sudden illness, a person is telling the old man did not tell her. Old people are often unable to withstand the blow, do not tell her that she can live for several years. King of a district resident Li Tingting: Although a person without the knowledge of the old lady, but the old man still fare well,http://head.as.wakwak.ne.jp, worry about the day his son outside had been. Maybe later told her the truth, she can accept, after so many years have passed.
 
Shaanxi Province Psychological Assistance Center Charity Society office, national secondary counselors what Yucai: usually families there will always be a variety of reasons, worried to hide the elderly, but it needs to continue to lie, because the elderly will keep asking the family all day long busy with, it will bear hide the elderly and bereaved double pressure. In fact, the old man's mental capacity is often stronger than we imagined. Under conditions permit, you can slowly infiltrate way to remind her, she finally told the truth. Because the elderly long-term see relatives, he died when will with regret, and his family has been under psychological pressure.
 
I have something to say
 
 
 
I encountered such a thing, how would you do
 
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(Original title: Big Brother brothers and sisters died in a car accident 13-year-old mother hiding)
 (Edit: SN017)