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Primary school teacher special hapless children,8v9azHoMiC? (Liang Chi / Chart)
Parents are the scourge?
Southern Weekend reporter intern Lei Pan Xiaoling Hu Jiaxin
Before joining "Parents are the scourge of" online discussion group, 28-year-old Fang Xin has to the parents "declaration of war" for 14 years. "Battle" of means, including: admitted to a college away from home, do not watch the news network, do not see the show, no time to eat, do not join the party. Finally, a large-scale "battle" broke out in a year and a half ago, her parents think that the fuse is to be a mother.
Become "Parents are the scourge of" group of one, the party Hope no longer entangled in their own "outrageous." And this is rooted in the text of the Green Camp watercress network, with nearly 7000 members of a discussion group compared thriller name, Fang Xin parents "war" on the "Crossfire" ornamental purposes, simply mediocre Debu value a mention.
Even team are filled with a clear-cut set of rules militancy: We are not endless piety, we just want to live a better life. In honor of the premise, to resist decay, ignorance, vexatious parents bondage and harm. Those relations hit two generations sore point of the post, always quickly aroused strong resonance, and hundreds of threads.
And Fang Xin unfolded in real life, "battle", these virtual smoke is unilateral. According to the survey within the group, universal life experience background of the team members are: born after 1984, tend to believe that the world is self-centered; and from the urine came into contact with the network, there is nothing unacceptable in view, there is no authority beyond doubt .
While their parents are mostly primary school teachers love to see CCTV, the scourge, the word for them, only to describe too old social evil US imperialism, and sparrows; extremely good at using the network, almost impossible to join to this group, toward the sons and daughters to fight a war in self-defense.
These are often known as the "engineers of human souls," the parents in the eighties and nineties, in the eyes of their children,Louboutin Sandales, but it is a group of "rigid national education most end machine" who "spared out dismal primary , but they could never hope to graduate from his parents. "
After 50 and 80,AH0RoNSim3, these two generations were born, grew up,sO02w067w0, thinking stereotypes Chinese society has experienced in 1949 are speaking, both before and after 30 years of complete rupture. Between the cracks, stirring the left and right of the game, back and into the see-saw, collective and individual conflict,O36wQ7lGF6, material and spiritual imbalance, economic base and upper displacement ......
They became not an individual will, both intimate and most estranged father and son, mother and daughter.
"Me will prosper against me bah"
"Keen to go over the new generation of Internet-minded organizations, or, simply set up their own organization, advocating accent,Louboutin Bottines, language does not startle."
"" Parents are the scourge of "group only had ushered in an" enemy ", a high school girl's mother, soon to be deported."
"Parents are the scourge" by British author Nick? Hornby's novel "Suicide Club", after the girl Jie Si sister away, and into a neurotic mother and father of Education Minister of increasingly tense relations, the failure of their own adolescence in summary When, Jie Si says. In 2006, Kun this novel translated into Chinese, and recommend to the watercress network.
In January 2008, a watercress friends invited her to join his newly formed group, and served as team manager, group name called "Parents are the scourge."
Kun accepted the appointment. Friends beans as a senior, it was a cultural correspondent in Shanghai English newspaper she did not feel this group deviant, while she was still mixed "skin irritation" Panel "disgrace" group, "We are all procrastination" Panel ... ...
These being the major social networking sites popular group, is recognized as a new generation of Internet networking and lifestyle, they are keen to defect to like-minded organizations, or simply set up their own organization, advocating accent,Louboutin Plates-forme, language does not startle.
Kun think, but this is a way for young people the right to speak. She comes from the hometown of Confucius in Shandong, the home of Wall Street has also repeatedly refresh a "filial piety" content,Louboutin Botte,kBfpwpGgNj, the wall, the great-grandfather's generation since reportedly been bristling. "Parents are the scourge of" group was formed after two years of development to nearly 7,000 members, is a moderate scale in the watercress on the side. Topics updated every day, focused on the theme of a clear-cut thing: how to deal with parents? Frist, a few are regarded as a classic and guide posts strong long-term top - how efficient anti-parents (anti parents)? Let us not repeat their failures in life; whether you are repeating the mistakes parents ......
On the eve of Father's Day, another keen to play happy network social networking site to vote to do a survey on the relationship between the two generations, voting results showed that after 50 generations of parents, the biggest question is: control freak too, does not respect the privacy of children.
However, these complaints are the online world, one for the parents was born in the 1950s are not good in the world. This is still an unequal, and tends to self-enclosed "war."
Over the past two years, "Parents are the scourge of" group had only one usher in "enemy", a high school girl's mother. This name will be the Internet's mother found her daughter and her exchange between the less and less relationship is getting cold, specially came to the door, trying to communicate with her contemporaries.
Panel members did not give her the opportunity, they expelled the mother. The reason is that here is a group of trained crew parents hurt children, they just want to keep each other warm, no reconciliation.
In addition, they also expel all dare preach love of parents speech team members, they require the presence of only one voice in the group, "against the parents."
Fang Xin has been diving in the group, in the real world, she never to "enemy," the image appears in front of their parents, it will not be like their peers in the network presented "me will prosper against me bah "as domineering. Although born in the secret name of the family of the girl of primary school teachers for parents "war" began at age 14, and continues to this day.
Primary school teacher special hapless children?
"The mother on the spot freak," Lu Xun how can wrong? ! How the State Board of Education will be wrong? ! '"
"Witnesses said" the old take-grade class parents than with them in the first place, in the teachers' office, I often see their children in sackcloth, and completely regardless of how many people around. '"
Fang Xin parents not to stay up all night reading the revolt, not to nail polish and other bits and pieces of "guerrilla warfare" Upgrading to a premeditated and planned "protracted war", appeared in the upper primary watershed.
In a section on language lessons Professor Lu Xun's works, Fang Xin hands in either language teacher, teacher's mother questioned a presentation, "Lu Xun either wrong, or is the State Education Code was wrong!" The mother on the spot freak, " Lu Xun how can wrong?! how wrong the State Board of Education?! "
Fang Xin determined not to admit eventually suffer the maximum penalty - read aloud in front of the whole school year JianTaoShu, repeated three times, "I was wrong!"
Although the results remain outstanding from small to large, square Xin whimsy mother still makes time to worry.
Fang Xin father was a railway train driver, according to the specified time to sleep, get up at a predetermined time, a predetermined speed to drive. Gentle father, himself, and the only intolerable that given the pace of life and the rules are broken. For example, Fang Xin reading see Hing head, always reluctant to go to bed on time, eat.
This is the face of a typical 50 parents -
Own memory beginning, they experienced a series of political movements, natural disasters, man-made, national policies and make their own survival needs has many brothers and sisters, only help each other to survive, it has trained them to collectivism simple and faithful Faith;
They live in a railway family area,[url=]c7VTjUMUAt[/url], it is a self-made system of independent kingdoms, railway transportation from the hospital to the court to primary, secondary and readily available, which leads to their innate organizational and unit holders a high degree of dependence and trust;
They like to use the "dubious" to blame the party Xin non-mainstream ideas,Louboutin Mariage, in their cognitive system, the world has always been black and white, not "socialism" to "capitalism", they were trained to be warned only It can be armed with dialectical materialism head, explaining economic, political, aesthetic, news ......
When they are young they will soon be deprived of the right to education in the face of 80 children, among them the future can communicate topic, and passers-B encounter when traveling in greeting, not much difference;
The most serious problem is that they have been accustomed to living, employment, house,45y6DsnXs1, fertility countries have planned all been arranged, they will habitually think all the arrangements for the next generation.
Zhou Rui, Wuhan, a prestigious journalism undergraduates, parents are officials in Hubei Province education system, taking advantage of his connections, paved daughter from kindergarten to graduate school, and even the way of employment. They reduce the number of daughter getting home, especially from its attempts to arrange disappointed and puzzled.
In their view, love for her daughter, is to pave the way for her future; and in the eyes of her daughter Zhou Rui, love that is let go, because "Their time has passed."
After graduating from middle school, power admitted field focus high school, got his wish to begin an independent life. Weekly, Xin Fang will receive a letter from the mother, it is a primary standard for style style, for example,VMs3EOYaFG, "ready to return to the mainland of Hong Kong, your father and I are a Chinese people proud." ; "You are about to usher in the college entrance examination, we are proud of your hard and learn the spirit but worry ...... parents believe that you will grow to be the pillars of the country's" ......
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